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It's my birthday and it's awkward

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And it's full of ppl Who aren't even my guests. My roommate had a nameday and invited all these ppl. Moreover my period came on the sofa. 😭They're gonna scold me for the sofa plus feeling so awkward. Just came from dad and sis visit

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hypercat54

Clean the sofa up? Happy birthday.

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Trying. And thanks

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Blueruth

Hydrogen peroxide for the sofa. Chocolate cake and a glass of wine for your birthday 🎉 your family remembered. That’s not nothing!

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Thank you

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Sillysausage234

Happy birthday 🎂

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Thanks

happy healthy woman day!!!!!! sure easy for me to say but i had sisters...and made me realize...yes big downside for them and many who struggle with (believe me i know it can be painful) however...to real men...it belies the miracle...that men are not and never will be...people need to grow up........some day it will be a kid or wife with the flu....ur father u said was a veterinarian...like puppies dont get parvo and as vets we see the sickest of sick...its part of a womans physiology thats completely out of her control....any more than morning sickness.....good lesson to findou whose mature and real.....and whose an immature whimp....thats inexcusable that anyone would give anyone a problem with.......what happens when a visitor has her water break some day....who cares in a neg way......get her to the car...grow up boys and girls.......put it behind u and forget about it.... ok so what gft are u going to do or make for your birthday......who needs to wait for those wimps....make sure u celebrate and u make sure u stick up for u and develop u as ur best coach best freind advocate and ignore rivals and peopel who give u a hard time...ignore it and push on....they dont deserve a person who they arent good to....some have super supportive and close famileis....other prevail through them and learn to let stupid slide off their back like water and not by into stupid...worlds full of it......what normal father isnt protective of a maturring daughter and help her into womanhoo proud of herself not condemning her or belittling her for normal miracle physiology and more than a son can help his voice changes or beard.....completely out of his control......sorry u had a rough day and sure its humiliating short term....one of my coaches really pegged it and helped me.....ok to feel but dont get a complex brig....he of cours was visionary coach compared the abusive ones...he was spot on...besides in ten years....i used to tell myself..ill never se thes people again...who cares...congrats..i generally recommend celebrating for a week not a day.......the gang send their best!!!! (not patronizing u...after all the ....ive seen in vet med ..i love light hearted and reading kids books giving myself a childhood and nurturing healing the inner kid......ive got buckets ofserious.....fun is the tonic many need....im not afraid to repair and take care or rhi nneer kids again...love kids books.....im a huge kid at heart....thankfully....keeps u resilient.......forget the stupid in this world...plenty of them

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sounds harsh to call people stupid but im around alot of stupid screaming horse parents ...tough on kids over some stupid bit of ribbon.......miss the p;oint...the skill.....not the stupid ribbon...F minus for the parents.....idiots

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So not only my parents are idiots?

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ooooh no....lots of great people and idiots....part of adjstments studnts go trhrough going to college...some roommates great ....others oil and water.......just part of it........try to find our flock...and they theirs........not fun, we live and swm through and out the other side...find a safe island.....whew....put all the hard tmes behnd us when we find people we click with........mean tme we take turns holding the umbrella dealing with lifes rain and gloomy days....friends make funny faces with each other ..go fling and tell campfire stories........big bird has a million....tons of fun....

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imagine the stuff he got.......big and bright yellow....til he found bert and ernie lost in a hedge......Big Bird called the fire dept for help and theyve been best buds since......what big bird? oh him ....man were so tight we see nothin man....they are sooooo cool.......why i lkes themmm.....they lke going flying too......u shold see big bird withthe ostriches....Mom?

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Sesame street. I feel like a kid that's going to cry, not like the Age i got in. Should try Taylor Swift's 22 song

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Dolphin14

Happy Birthday 🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂

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catsrock

Happy Birthday! Hope things get better.

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kenster1

happy birthday and all the best.

Thanks all

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