Just sad......

[Shield_Of_Faith]

I know in time I may meet a special woman, big part of me strongly feels that's not gonna happen but anyway being around people in my life who are great people but seeing everyone around me in relationships and happy and I'm just here like feeling like a nobody...... I'm not blaming them for being happy, it's just me with my extreme social phobia plaguing my life, how am I suppose to be fine. Again I'm happy they are happy, I'm just getting down on me and my stupid issues.Sorry for sounding pathetic. I just needed to vent.

[Shield_Of_Faith]

I appreciate you taking the time to reply to my post. I understand where your coming from, I just hope I can experience true love once at least and hope maybe it can last. Maybe it won't or maybe it will but a chance to try and give it everything I got to make sure it works and I definitely want to grow old with someone but if I atleast have a chance at love with a woman, I want to try. Sorry if I sound to sad lol......

[Shield_Of_Faith]

Yeah I try to do things and get out of the house when I can. My social phobia and agoraphobia don't make that easy but at times I try to go out but it's rare. I hate feeling isolated but I'm afraid to go outside it's like I'm stuck. I'm trying hard though. It's not easy. Thank you for your encouraging words. 🙂

[Shield_Of_Faith]

I've tried different doctors and therapists over the years. Even at one time a support group with others anxiety like me. Nothing really worked.

[Shield_Of_Faith]

Thank you I appreciate it! I'll be trying my best and I'll be hopeful the best I can anyway. 👍

[Cavalierrubie]

You have had some good advice here. It must seem like never and forever that you have not met the right person. If you can’t get out then the only other solution is on line. There are some Christian singles web pages. You could just chat at first. There would be no pressure or obligations. There may be someone like yourself on there who is desperately lonely. As you are a Christian l would pray about it first and ask Jesus to guide you in the right direction. The thing is no one is going to knock on your door and you have to make the effort and meet God halfway. He knows what we need not what we want. I hope you will push yourself just a little bit harder and just give it a try. You have nothing to lose and it could just be the turning point for you. Think about it. I will pray for you.

[Shield_Of_Faith in reply to Cavalierrubie]

Thanks I appreciate the reply. I know I trust God, I leave it to him while I put the work into. It just gets difficult sometimes, but I'm trying to have Faith.🙏

[Cavalierrubie]

Shhhh. Don’t tell him that !! Lol

[Cavalierrubie]

You take care of yourself. You are young, handsome and hopefully healthy so no worries there. Don’t get obsessed by this and don’t let it define who you are. Take life as it comes. I have a bachelor friend who is happy. You don’t always have to be the norm to be happy. You have the freedom to do that. You get depressed and think it’s because you don’t have a girlfriend but maybe it could be because of something else. Perhaps you could do voluntary work or help an elderly neighbour. Something to take your thoughts away from yourself and something to give you a purpose in life. Helping others is very rewarding. Think about it because otherwise time will standstill for you. God bless

[Shield_Of_Faith in reply to Cavalierrubie]

Thank you I appreciate your kind words! I have to try harder for the Lord.

God Bless you too. 🙏