Divorce Finalized

[ZERO_ZEN]

It's hard to accept your soul mate wasn't faithful. I've been through divorce before, unfortunately. I'm starting to believe I'm just not enough. One of the hardest things I've done was file for divorce against the only person I've had a real connection with. His actions destroyed me. I was a professional woman with everything going for me. Now, I'm trying to climb out of a black hole and stand on my own again. I do not have many friends and have a small family. I did just get a new job, and I'm hoping to meet friends. I'm trying to hold it together for kids too. Just needed to get it out. Thanks for listening.

[Stippler]

You ARE enough. Sending positive energy to a beautiful soul.

[Broken327]

Seems I'm going through the same thing, he even tried to use open relationship to disguise his cheating. When I told his little thing about me he said I ruined his life. I was madly in love with him. Now I can't even leave the house.

[ZERO_ZEN in reply to Broken327]

It sounds like you understand.

[Broken327 in reply to ZERO_ZEN]

I definitely know how much it hurts.. I would have done anything for him but lie.

[dontforgetme]

Hey! a very first thing is to know you are not alone, you should have thought that there are people in much worse situations and they are still have a hope. A soulmate is a person who does not leave you forever. But know the important is your children and your mental

[ZERO_ZEN in reply to dontforgetme]

You are right. I had to leave him because I could not trust him. I forgave him, yet broken trust is difficult to fix.