Is anyone else here afraid to get better? That for some reason you're holding on to your depression because it's more comfortable to be miserable than to improve? Is it the unknown, the fear of responsibility? I know I am. My wife says I always self sabotage myself. Once something starts to work I freak out and then whatever it is stops working. I've been on about 20 meds, ECT, TMS, ketamine, hospitalization and nothing works. For the last 14 months I've had severe suicidal ideation, depressive/emotional pain.
I was on lexapro for 13 years and went off of it 14 months ago. It kept me at baseline, a safety net but I felt like I was just existing, no joy or motivation or anything. I had this sense of paralysis or inertia and all I could do was sit on the couch. It was not life. Finally, I said there has to be something better than this and went off. My doctors couldn't stabalise me and I wound up in the hospital.
I started it again 4 days ago and got relief right away from the suicidal and pain. Then the last two days I got less and less relief. Today, I got nothing, like I never even took anything and the suicidal pain is back. I know things take time and you've got to give it a chance (I've been on 20 meds and this before), but I wonder, am I already self sabotaging myself? My wife got that stuck in my head and I can't get rid of it. I'm really scared this isn't going to work either and I'm all worked up and upset. I really need help. I can't live like this or function. I need to at least have hope. I know I might just be catastrophising, but I'm freaking out here. I know it's only 4 days. I know I need to be patient. But to get relief so quickly and have it disappear is really messing with my head.
I'm reaching out to you guys because I'm really scared. I have a 12 year old son I promised I'd stick around, but I'm in so much pain right now and have been for so long (25 yrs) I don't know what to do I've run out of treatments and I do therapy 3 times a week.