Alone

I spend a good lifetime on my own unable to form relationships. The people I speak to keep saying that I am likeable and have a lot to give but I don't even manage to make friends. The problem must lay with me. I know I could be content by myself but I don't really want to be on my own. I realise though that it is hard to expect anyone having to deal with my moodswings. To find someone who can accept me for who I am must not be my destiny. I have given up trying to find an answer. So me, myself and I, it is.

[Hidden]

This is a good place to get to know people who are going through similar situations, illnesses and you will get to make friends on here who will be there to listen and give advice where possible. Even though I am blessed to have family and friends, they don't have certain health conditions that I have so by joining here you can meet like minded people who know what having health concerns is like. You get the odd drama on here now and again with him arguing with him,she don't like her etc etc like an episode of Hollyoaks, but all in all this is a good place for you to build up your self esteem and work through your problems. Welcome to the family, and message on here when you are feeling low. There are always people around who are there to listen and help where possibleTake care

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

😊Thank you 👍

[Hidden]

When you mention physical disabilities, it is not off topic because it is also in my case part of the isolation, being unable to walk properly and being handicapped. It makes me frustratingly unable to do things and many can't be bothered to put up with me for it. I don't even have blood relations or family in my life but even if I did, I agree with you, they'd be less use than friends you accept you for who you are. I'm not on Facebook anymore. I closed my account some time ago.

[buffalogal1]

Hi! I totally get what you are saying, and I think the same way which makes it even tougher to make friends. It can feel so lonely and scary because I know I need people for support. My zoom therapist brainstormed with me about activities to do and places to go where I might meet a potential friend. It is hard for me!It's easier to be by myself. It's hard to be vulnerable and I'm sure I fear rejection.

Let's keep in touch!

[Hidden in reply to buffalogal1]

Oh, well put. I feel exactly the same. Yes, I think we should. 😊

[pam4him]

One of the first steps to finding friends and/or dates is to know and love yourself for who you are. You can check that off your list. Try not to force relationships, but allow them to develop naturally. Perhaps if you find someone with a common interest or hobby, try doing that together and see how it goes. Do you have a treatment plan for the mood swings? If not, maybe consider speaking with a dr and/or counselor. Meanwhile, we are here for you. Prayers for peace, strength, guidance and fulfilling relationships to form.