My story

[thechae]

I want a place to share my story. I do not talk about myself very much. When I was in high school, I was always pressured to look a certain way or like certain things in order to “fit” in. When I got cheated on by a boyfriend of mine, my best friend told me that I should have put up with it since he’s her best friend and guys are at that age are supposed to fool around. Then, afterwards, another boyfriend of mine raped me in a forest ridden with poison ivy because he kept telling me that this is how couples show love. My rapist’s ex girlfriend attempted to choke me in my sleep during a overnight class trip because she said he would never stop talking about me even after I broke up with him after that night. I told the guidance counselor and she said they could not do anything because the girl who attempted to choke me was one of the head peer counselors at school for the freshman class. I thought this unhappiness would end once I graduated high school. In college, I met someone new. This idea of mine did not last long. After I told him that I may be pregnant soon after a breakup, he told me to keep my mouth shut and transfer colleges because if people on campus found out, he’d be outed for throwing abortion money at me. I miscarried. Then, I did transfer and graduated from another state university. I met someone. This person was patient with me. Never pressured me into doing anything. This person is the reason why I’m able to talk to you guys today. He is encouraging me to face my fears and take the next step in recovery from my trauma. Thank you for listening to me. I wish you all the best.

[Hidden]

I’m sorry you went through all of that! That sounds so difficult but you are a warrior! You are so strong overcoming that. I’m glad you found someone who treats you right! You deserve the best ❤️

[thechae in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much! ❤️ That means the world to me!

[FluffyCrickett]

I'm so sorry you went through so much! You are strong to overcome though and I'm proud of you!

[thechae in reply to FluffyCrickett]

Thank you ❤️❤️ I really appreciate it

[Iammesues]

This patient person you have is a gift. The gift most of us are missing.

[thechae in reply to Iammesues]

Yes! He is a gift! An absolute treasure that I always remind him about every day