This is my story. 7/12/2020 12:38 pm

[EY58]

Year 2016, when I graduated in university. Right after, I got hired in a company and until now I am still working in the company as an analyst.

Year 2019, I got pregnant.

April 2020, my son turned 1 year old.

Today, my mother called me slut.

I know that she hates the father of my child because he is poor. She said, it was okay if he is not the father.

We are doing our best to raise our child properly (though we are already separated). To earn more, to save more, I am selling clothes, shoes, and other stuff online. To overcome the problems in life, I pray, I smile, I think of my son's future.

[Kat_21]

Ignore what everyone else has to say. The fact that you're doing your all for your son speaks volumes of who you are as a person.

[EY58 in reply to Kat_21]

Thanks Kat! <3 I'm going to sleep right after my shift so when I wake up I will feel relax.

[Hidden]

Are you living with your Mother ?.

However if you suffer Anxiety and your Mother is toxic regards your Man and child it may be better to move and not visit your Mother, if She wishes to see He Godchild she will come around and contact you.. There is no reason why you should accept a toxic relationship, the child may eventually pick up on the problem by seeing parents been called out in front of them. Move on

BOB

[EY58 in reply to Hidden]

I told her to go back to our province. She said, she will go back once I pay all my debts to her. She was referring to the help that she have given me including the medical expenses when I was sick. I was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism, diabetes and I was a glucoma suspect.

[Hidden in reply to EY58]

EY58

I do not know how old you are and the responsibilities you have to pay back the money She is talking about. However and whatever you decide it would seem your Mother is trying to control you and Grandson. You need to live your Life and consider what will be best for your family. I am living a life where I will have to make lasting changes where I am able to make my Life more positive

It may be you need to make that move away from a conflict that may begin to affect your life. I know it is hard and it may take time and courage to make that break. Give Her back that money you owe, I do not feel She will feel happy with that or if She does you know the person and how She tries to control YOU. If this is what is happening.

BOB

[Hidden]

That must have been very painful for you to hear. I hope that you have supportive people around you who keep you focused on the good things in your life. Clearly you love your son and are doing what you think is best for him and his future, I hope that your mother realizes this someday.