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Insecurity, self worth, relationship issue

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I’ve been really insecure and having horrible anxiety in my relationship, me I told myself to let go of past pain that was caused in my relationship but recently my boyfriend (Mexican) doesn’t believe in marriage but he recently made a comment saying “I don’t believe in marriage but white women are for the ring) and it just made me really sad and insecure because I am not white I’m brown and proud of it too, I just don’t know if he’s worth staying with and I feel devastated he said that to me because I am not that, so I feel like shit and unworthy and i don’t know how to rearrange my brain into not taking it personal I know it isn’t a big issue but it takes a toll on me because this is someone I love. Someone help

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There is incompatibility you should steer clear for the sake of your mental but ultimately only you can make a decision.

Sad to say Pastel it seems you know what you need to do. If you are stressed by the thought of this persons attitude you need to move on. The Relationship Has reached its conclusion

Move on

BOB

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