I posted this last week about my boyfriend who has severe anxiety, uses anti-anxiety medication, and drinks way too much.
I decided to mention my concerns to him on Friday evening. I came from pure love and concern. I was very careful about my wording and tone. It was, of course, bad timing as he had a stressful day at work and was already 5 beers deep by that time. He walked in with a case of beer.
He got upset. Told me I was attacking. Opened his iPad and started playing poker until 3 a.m. I went to bed alone. He woke up at noon and glued himself to his phone and beer. When he was too anxious to leave the house to go get more beer, he asked me to go. I told him I didn’t want to go get more beer but i’d love to go on a walk together or hike, spend time with him. He then packed up his stuff and left. I asked for a hug as he was backing out, he told me it was raining so no.
I blocked his number at this point. 6 p.m. rolls around last night and I get an email titled “knew it”. The contents of that email? “Knew you were sleeping around. Knew it!” I didn’t reply. For the record, no I’m not nor have I ever. What is happening right now?!
I guess I’m debating on whether to respond. That was hurtful and he knows better.