SAD

[IloveMary]

I am feeling more and more sad each day and I used to be the one writing to people on here and trying to help them feel better but I am finding it hard to do that for my friends on here because they always have been there and I try to be there for them but I just don't know what happen I just can't find the right words to say to any one...

[senorab12]

You are a beautiful soul and you can get through this hard time, you’ll smile again and be able to say the right words to people, just hang in there.

If you wanna talk about what you may think it’s bothering, I’m here for you.

[IloveMary in reply to senorab12]

Thank you I have been trying to go on chat for help and all I get is come back in 20-30 mins and I have try 5 times tonight I think I should just give up I am not going to get help tonight but thank you for being there I hope you have a good night and sweet dreams

[senorab12 in reply to IloveMary]

Don’t give up, I’m here, we can talk about whatever it’s bothering you really. I’m here for you.

[IloveMary in reply to senorab12]

Thank you I had to go get rest I had 2 hours of sleep and just need it..I hope your day goes good today for you

[NeuronerdDoaty]

Sometimes you’re a giver and sometimes you’re a needer. (That’s not a real word but I like it.)

Maybe before it gets too far you should get a GP check and then tell a psych or therapist you’re spiraling down.

You’re important to us and you don’t always have to give. You’re not a bank with an endless amount of empathy. You need empathy deposits.

You are loved too.

[IloveMary in reply to NeuronerdDoaty]

Thank you

[Poodie]

Hi IloveMary.

Sometimes I feel the same way in that I do not have the right words to say. But I do care and wish to help people on here and to lend my support. I know I have gotten a great deal of support on this site. I am glad I found it.

Even if people don’t or can’t write in, I think we should assume that people on here are caring and kind.

Try to get some help re your sadness. Please hand in there and know we are here trying to make “empathy deposits “ into your bank account. Sometimes we can give and sometimes we need to take.

[IloveMary in reply to Poodie]

Thank you for the kind words

[Booklover0219]

Friendship is about give and take. You can always be the one giving. I hope you are feeling better soon.

[IloveMary]

Thank you I hope you have a good night

[LiveandLetLive42]

It’s okay to let us be there for you! Sometimes we need that. We can help others as we’re helping ourselves but sometimes we really just need help. And we don’t have the energy to try and give advice to anyone. We are here for you! Let us help you.

[IloveMary]

Thank you hope you have a good night