No hope

[lolavee1]

A few months ago i made a mistake and got into a relationship wit a co worker. I wasnt looking for anything it just happened. Another coworker went around spreading all kinds of rumor about how i was sleeping wit tht person and i slept wit 2 other ppl wen i hadnt. Totally ruined my career and my GM ended up making me out to be the problem. This girl go documented and moved out but then they promoted her like wtf. Ok then they moved me out and gave her my job where in the hell is tht ok. So now here i am lost feeling again like im not good enough even tho i was the victim i some how eneded up being the problem. And the company doesnt even care about how this girl is treating employees and getting away wit watever she wants its disgusting. Im just fed up and lost in life my career everything. I honestly feel like i only have one way out and i dnt kno maybe this is my breakin point.

[Nadeshiko]

Hi, I'm not sure what advice I can give you that won't sound trite, but I want you to know you are not alone. Is there a union rep or HR manager you can take the case to? I'll be online for a while if you need to talk/vent though.

[lolavee1 in reply to Nadeshiko]

HR knows of this and she got moved out for awhile during the investigation and then they promoted her and threw the investigation out. Now shes doing this same stuff to another employee its sad

[Labs9]

I do not know what to say!! This all is really messed up and no one deserves this. All you can do right now is be patient. Always remember that if good days didnt stay, bad days wont stay either. You did not do anything wrong and trust me you will end up with something better than this. Stay strong!

[NuViking7]

You can’t let something like this break you. Honestly, who cares who you sleep with?? Some people cannot mind their own business

[lolavee1 in reply to NuViking7]

The sad thing is i didnt even do any of the things shes telling ppl and even worse my general manager is on her side HR doesnt do anything. I work for whataburger and they preach on how they take care of there employees they dnt allow gossip and they do their best to squash stuff like this, but they have failed me miserably.

[SuZQ154]

Like others, I am not sure what to say. Sorry you are going through hard times. Your situation sounds complicated and interwoven with many people.

Have you considered counseling? Sometimes, getting professional, unbiased, and a-different-perspective advice helps to clarify current issues and past ones. Christian counseling has helped me to sort out my own "baggage" and move onto more healthy relationships and work situations. Hope this helps and please keep posting.