Am I crazy?

[Brittnay12]

Am i crazy for wanting to live with my s/o and his 3 kids rather that living on my own. I feel like i always need something to do and the people around me. I just think im the type of person who wants to take of of everything and just stay home with the people i live with. Want to live and come home to people who genuinely like me and want me around.

[Hidden]

Honestly if you want to continue a good relationship I would stay put. I lived with my husband with his son before we got married and it was a struggle trying to discipline his son or requiring him to make him do the right thing. It's a stress on the relationship for sure. He's a marine now and a great kid but my relationship with his son was strained too. I would have done things so differently. Do you have children?

[Brittnay12 in reply to Hidden]

I do not. I've been in his kids lives for 2 years now and 2 of them are every other week and one is full time.

[Hidden in reply to Brittnay12]

I didn't have kids yet either. That makes it harder. He didn't trust that I could be mom and I never got the chance to be his sons mom. He paid for that. I would stay put. I think you would regret it. Been there, done that.

[Brittnay12 in reply to Hidden]

Well the thing is i've lived with them already for two years. We took a break and i now want to go back and get a place for us. He respected me as being their stepmom and the oldest doesn't have a mom and he started to call me mom. The younger two have a mom and my s/o has told me that im a better mom/parent than their real mom. I've been a huge blessing to him and his kids and i miss that.

[Hidden in reply to Brittnay12]

To each their own. I just know for me it was hard on the relationship.

[Want2BHappy3]

No, as long they don't mind? Living with roommates is tough. They have kids Don't discipline them, that's the parents job.