Feeling empty

[Yumaris]

Emptyness that’s all I feel.

[Shelly46]

I hear ya. But remember your not alone! This will pass. Focus on something positive! Tomorrow is a new day😊

[Yumaris in reply to Shelly46]

I can’t.. so exhausted...

[Shelly46 in reply to Yumaris]

Praying this will get better for you. Do you have any pets? My dogs seem to help me.

[Yumaris in reply to Shelly46]

No I don’t. He made me give her away a few years ago. I can’t stop shaking

[Shelly46 in reply to Yumaris]

Take deep breaths.

[Shelly46 in reply to Yumaris]

Do you have any Dr. appointments coming up.

[Yumaris in reply to Shelly46]

I have an acupuncture appt sunday and i feel like canceling

[Shelly46 in reply to Yumaris]

Don’t cancel. I’m struggling today also as I have no family here. I’m flying out to see my brother next month and my husband blew up about it. He just is pushing me further away from him. I’m just struggling so bad because my first fiancé I will always love. He was killed on our wedding day and I just feel my husband is being selfish and not wanting to understand what I’m going through. So remember your not alone. I’m so glad I joined this group. There’s people here who understand my anxiety and depression.

[Yumaris in reply to Shelly46]

Sorry about your fiance and hurts me that you are going through this.

I haven’t felt this bad in a while. So frustrated that i feel like this. Tired of crying, my head is killing me, haven’t had an appetite, don’t feel like a woman. I can’t deal with all this!!! Too much for me. I feel that everyone will feel happy if I wasn’t in their lives. But then I think about my son and I’m his only caregiver. He depends on me too much. I don’t want him to feel what I’m feeling. He is already starting to feel some sort of way w his dad.

[Shelly46 in reply to Yumaris]

Remember you are important. Your son needs you and you need him. Try doing something for yourself that makes you feel special.

[Shelly46 in reply to Yumaris]

I’m not even wanting to go to work tomorrow but I’m going to make it. Even though my husband is being negative I’m not going to let him get to me. I’ve got to start doing things for me.

[Yumaris in reply to Shelly46]

When i do I feel soooo guilty

[art62grammie in reply to Shelly46]

You got it! The exact words came out of my mental doctor's mouth. Live for you. I wouldn't let anyone keep me from what I chose to do. You need your family. I was married to a very controlling man. Seventeen years and divorced him recently. No more. He is a spoiled mama's boy and when I went 500 miles away to visit my family. Even before the marriage ended. I did something that felt so awesome. I have never dealt with pawn shops. Two years ago 500 hundred miles from where I live. I hocked my wedding ring. Boy! That was so great. He does not deserve me. I would have given it away. He cost our marriage not me. LOL! I just love it.

[Yumaris in reply to Shelly46]

My heart is palpitating so fast

[Yumaris]

I don’t feel well at all.

[art62grammie in reply to Yumaris]

I went through this too shaking for 2 hours. It was one year ago. I was and crying. I was close to a nervous breakdown. I was going through a year- long horrible divorce. I made it and am fine now. I had called a friend and he helped me make it that day. I believe you can be strong with our support. You think positive. Don't let the reason for feeling like this defeat you. Never feel guilty for doing things for you. I was that way all my life. Just recently at 56, my mental doctor told me to start living for me. I am now doing that. No guilt here. I love treating myself. Pampering me. Why not? I am human and have helped so many of my family. It is now my time. Honey, no guilt. Live for you. Talk to us. That is why we are here. To help one another. We need others that understand. Love you. You can make it through. BELIEVE IN YOU.

[Yumaris in reply to art62grammie]

Thank you so touching. Something that I need to learn.

[peterfromlondon]

i know how u feel bad sad u do feel like this