He is back

[Lostandlonely]

He came back asking for my forgiveness and asked if i would marry him. I said yes. Of course. I love him to death. But of course im insecure. And im wondering what if he leaves again. What if i get hurt again? At what point will i fully trust him again?

[quitter333]

Better live your life now, than wonder about things that do not exist.

Remember the good old saying - if you life in the past, you live by regret. If you live in the future, you live by anxiety. But if you live now, you live in balance.

[hypercat54 in reply to quitter333]

Never heard that before. What a great saying and so true. x

[Paula462]

That's a tough one I was once in love once honestly it requires basic facts look at all the good things and all the bad things that have happened between you to also look inside your heart and use the combination of both and remember in life you have to put yourself first

[Eowyn7]

Couples therapy! Don't get married until you are sure you can trust him

[Cassie2178]

I'm happy he came back and congrats on your engagement. I would suggest not rushing the wedding and in the next few months seek out marriage counseling. If you are a person of faith visit your local church and ask for marriage counseling and if you are not a person of faith seek out a counselor to help you both map out your future. It's much better to work on these issues now than once your are married and it will also silence the thoughts in your head about trust issues. You are worth the proof of his commitment. There's an article on line " Marriage Preparation 101" by Louis McBurney that you might enjoy reading. Best to you!