dooms day for me

[hlangdon]

Well my anxiety is full force today until I figure something out. My stepfather has sent a legal letter evicting me from the house he owns that I'm living in alone. He plans on selling the house. UGH. Might as well be dead to everyone who knows me. No point of me being here anymore. Need a legit address so i can keep my medicaid and food stamps which I no longer will have. I dont even know where I'll be going or even sleeping. I wont be able to take any of my meds or any of my appts for my primary dr and the prescribing dr and the therapist.

[Hidden]

Sorry. I lost my home too and we all moved in with in laws a year ago. It's hard. Can you stay with any family or friends for a bit?

[hlangdon in reply to Hidden]

Melhall, I don't have anyone to help out like that. My one support person only stays at family members houses when she is not dog sitting. My next door neighbors have a full house since they have 3 kids.

[Hidden in reply to hlangdon]

The only thing I can think of is temporary shelter and check out government assistance for housing. If you are on disability or low income they can help. How soon do you have to leave?

[hlangdon in reply to Hidden]

I'm not on disability at all. Shelters take months to get into and one of them is only for a weeks period

[Hidden in reply to hlangdon]

I'm so sorry. Can you work full time and get a studio apartment??

[Hidden in reply to hlangdon]

Do you have spareroom .com or Airbnb ?

[hlangdon in reply to Hidden]

spareroom.com has nothing in my area. airbnb wont work for me

[Hidden in reply to hlangdon]

Okay that's a shame, I hope you sort something out

[kenster1]

is he doing this in spite of something that's happened or is it just for financial reasons.just wondered if he could help you find a new home.

[hlangdon in reply to kenster1]

kenster this is in spite of something that has happened between him and myself and other family members

[kenster1 in reply to hlangdon]

that's awful specially at this time of the year in the uk if its private let they have to give you 4 weeks notice.lets hope its on the market for a while then and that gives you time to sort something out.

[hlangdon in reply to kenster1]

60 days to figure something out

[hypercat54]

Oh this is tough. If he is the legal owner I guess he has the right to sell his property if he wants to.

How about a compromise - you could agree to move out immediately if he funds the deposit for a new rented home and maybe pays the first few months rent until you get back on your feet? x

[hlangdon in reply to hypercat54]

huypercat54 i'm not taking the risk of asking him questions to help out. I already told him about my anxiety and being out of work til i'm stable and he didn't want to hear it

[hypercat54 in reply to hlangdon]

Ok. Sorry I have no more ideas then. I wish you luck. x