So I tried to talk to someone I trusted. She's an adult at my school I moved back to. I told her how I feel like Harley's death was my fault. I told her that I was raised to believe in God and used to go to church everyday with my Memaw and Nana every Sunday, but when dad got custody of me, I stopped going to church. Then when my life started to go down hill and everything bad that was happening to me, I felt as I was being punished. And every time I asked for help, he would ignore me so eventually I stopped believing. (This part I didn't tell her cause she would have to send me away to the Mental Health Center or Hospital. But After I stopped believing I just started to wish for death. Kept telling the skies to take me away, that I didn't want nor deserve to be here anymore) I told her that some higher power decided to punish me cause I quit believing and other things by taking Harley way. That's why I feel so guilty about her death.
(I didn't tell her this either. But that Higher power decided to decline my 'prayers' and punish me again by taking Harley away who was 11. I was just starting to get better from the depression and everything and whatever high power is up there decides to screw my lifer up more then it already was)
She suggest that she feels like its my conscience is making me feel guilty cause I quit believing or something like that. She said that I could try Church and see if that would help. She even offered to take me to hers and try it. I still don't believe in 'God' but I'm starting to believe there is a higher power up there.
But I just don't know what to do honestly, Any advice??