Why

[Nejb]

Why is it that when you are young and new in the workplace, you are to be blamed and interrogated regarding your bad terms with another mate though you are not the first one who showed bad attitude???

Why is everyone pointing fingers on me? Whyyy .. if I know my office mate is a dake person who is good towards others when she faces them but gossip them when they're at the back. True because when we are still in good terms she's always telling me gossips about our other workmates.

I dont want here anymore but I need to because of my bills.. I cry alone in the bathroom no one to talk to. No one defends me . I tried to be positive but this just happens agaiin

[pink83737]

I’m going through the same thing right now nejb! You aren’t alone, I know it’s a terrible feeling but it is not you’re fault some people are so miserable that they have nothing better to do but gossip and spread nasty things around about people! It sucks it truly does but if you aren’t happy start looking for another job, you should love what you do! i dread going into work only because of the people i work with but i love what i do !

[Nejb in reply to pink83737]

Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone.

But sadly, as much as I want to leave, I can't afford to so I have to stay for some few months ..

Im reying to stay strong here even though I know that all around me gossips about me and not talking to me. Hope I can survive

[pink83737 in reply to Nejb]

If I can survive so can you! I have one month to go! And it’s taking forever

[pam4him]

I am sorry you are dealing with this. If the office mate has been there a long time, they may be "respected" for their tenure, attitude not necessarily accounted for in that "respect." It is common that when a new person joins a workplace, and tension arises, they can be seen as the cause. Perhaps the next time this person starts to gossip, simply say "I'm sorry I can't talk now, I'm trying to get my work done" or something similar. If they press and continue, maybe step away from your work station for a moment. If you act disinterested, the gossiping may stop. Prayers for wisdom and peace for you.