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I am leaving this site, though in the past it has proved a help, and I enjoyed corresponding with others. HOWEVER - I am afraid I cannot trust this site, or more accurately it's administrators, when it removes - seemingly innocuous - posts and won't explain why. I have been in touch with five monitors and none of them can tell me why a recent post was removed - it was a good discussion about the usual topics and was removed. People come here for free (and respectful, of course) exchange, and it seems HU has now become like many other sites - and I wonder if they are using our data for other purposes. If only I could get an answer...I tried, and failed.

Good luck.

jc

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Xene profile image
Xene

Who’s jc? No point in replying I guess if they’ve already gone?🤷‍♀️ Surely everyone knows every website you visit in cyberspace gathers data and probably sells it on. How else would they make money?🤷‍♀️

in reply to Xene

Hi I don't know who JC is maby a reoccurring banned member who is still here and watching our response time wasting,as another user, don't know 🤔some don't know hidden means deleted account even if we click out this forum we don't show as hidden if still on HU 💛🌻

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Xene in reply to

Haha, no point in trying to teach your granny to suck eggs.😂 I just wondered who the initials jc actually related to in the present form.🤷‍♀️

This person has now left so no need to reply they won't see it it may have been a previous banned member that kept returning

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to

Who is was jc any takers?🤷‍♀️

in reply to Xene

No I havnt been on much and don't read all maby joined recently so not well known

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to

Ahhh, well if they were a newbie they wouldn’t know that you can’t say what you want when you want on here, even if it is totally innocuous, funny or anything else.🤷‍♀️😂

in reply to Xene

🤩 sorry I had to go out came back and I'm like what the 🤯whilst we were out I thought as its no one's post it could be a free for all chat or fun post even and look what I came back to surprise surprise 😂

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Xene in reply to

Haha we should take it even further and have a musical evening to finish off Easter in style but can’t remember if there’s still a ban on musical posts in which case they will all be frozen or taken down.🤷‍♀️😢😅😂

in reply to Xene

Well the odd music post has been on I think it's just if there doing it all the time and as this is no one's post the poster can't get banned lol so it's a free for all, shall we do a music theme then tomorrow as I'm tired out the clocks going forward and been doing DIY and 2 nights not much sleep, how's the kiddies in Australia 😊

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Xene in reply to

Actually I had a retro blast from the past last night/am, amazing haven’t done that in a while. The echidna’s are doing great, so cute and adorable 🥰 and growing like weeds.😂

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Sillysausage234 in reply to Xene

Jesus Christ….jackie chan maybe?

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to Sillysausage234

😂😂😂 For some reason I was thinking Jesus Christ.😂

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to Xene

Joan Collins ?

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to Sillysausage234

“It’s murder on the dance floor.”😂

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to Xene

Jimmy choo ?

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny in reply to Sillysausage234

Jimmy Carter ?

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to MadBunny

they didn’t leave us with many clues

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny in reply to Sillysausage234

Nope. Jeremy Clarkson ? Julie Christie ?

Julius Caesar?

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to MadBunny

Left hu …..maybe it’s Jimmy cliff,left singing 🎶 i can see clearly now the rain has gone

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to Sillysausage234

😂😂😂

LifeIsThePitts profile image
LifeIsThePitts in reply to Sillysausage234

Jesus Christ? 😂 👑 yesterday was Easter 🐇🐣🤔😉

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Yes! Got it in one :)

LifeIsThePitts profile image
LifeIsThePitts in reply to Sillysausage234

It's johnny Cash or Julia childs

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

La Jack Cousteau ?

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to MadBunny

Jeremy Corbyn?😂

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny in reply to Xene

😱

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to MadBunny

😂😂😂

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54 in reply to MadBunny

Jack Charlton? John Cleese? Joan Crawford? Julius Caesar? Had to look them up as my brain gone awol lol

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny in reply to hypercat54

So many possibilities 😊

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to Sillysausage234

Julian Clary?

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to Xene

😂

LifeIsThePitts profile image
LifeIsThePitts in reply to Sillysausage234

Jim Carey FOR SURE 😁

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Could be Johnny cash though 😂

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54 in reply to Sillysausage234

Or June Carter?

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny in reply to Xene

And me 🤣🤣

LifeIsThePitts profile image
LifeIsThePitts in reply to Sillysausage234

Awwe...u beat me to it already

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mrmonk in reply to Sillysausage234

I sure hope it wasn't Jarvis Cocker...he's quite cool and I really dig his band's music:

youtu.be/1f6_ozcqoZc?si=6eJ...

in reply to mrmonk

Xene here your music themes began lol thanks Mr monk 😊

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mrmonk in reply to

🎶😺🎶

Cb1963 profile image
Cb1963 in reply to Sillysausage234

And there was me thinking Jeremy corbyn 🤣

Colour
in reply to Cb1963

Hahaha

Nightyoga profile image
Nightyoga in reply to Cb1963

Who wore it better? Sexy Jesus or Serious Jesus?

TV Guide Double Easter Issue many years ago
litethatnevergoesout profile image
litethatnevergoesout in reply to Xene

Jiminy Cricket

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54 in reply to

If they were banned all their posts/replies would be removed as well.

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to hypercat54

Ahhhh but they may have crept back under the radar.🤷‍♀️

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54 in reply to Xene

Yes that's always a possibility lol

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to hypercat54

More likely a probability these days.🤷‍♀️😂

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54 in reply to Xene

😁😁😁😁

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny in reply to Xene

Jeepers Creepers !!!!

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Craigliving4Jane

So very sorry to hear your leaving. You speak of positive help, so it is very disappointing that you are made to feel that leave anything helpful to our challenges is sad indeed.

Being Hidden you probably will never know but we are sorry to see you go and for anyone else that maybe feeling that way who might happen upon this

Don’t leave

We love you

kenster1 profile image
kenster1

is it fair to say it`s not John Candy.

Agora1 profile image
Agora1 in reply to kenster1

Or Johnny Carson

kenster1 profile image
kenster1 in reply to Agora1

or James Cagney.

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Agora1 in reply to kenster1

There you go kenster...This is going to be like a song you hear and can't

stop playing it in your mind lol

kenster1 profile image
kenster1 in reply to Agora1

at least everyone has narrowed it down a little.

Xene profile image
Xene

Jilly Cooper!😂

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny

Could be.

I think if you decide to post something like this and delete your profile t’s only right that you delete all of your profiles as well.

in reply to litethatnevergoesout

Hi read through the post replys 🤩

litethatnevergoesout profile image
litethatnevergoesout in reply to

It’s like everyone’s broken into an abandoned building to party. loud music and litter and crushed beverage cans.

in reply to litethatnevergoesout

Haha yes sounds about right I'm in bed now had rough couple nights not much sleep but I'm sure your like that too and had some bad tummy pain seems to have settled hoping for a good sleep my cat is laid on my leg I'll need to disturb him, I hope you have a good sleep think your 5 hours behind me out clocks have just gone forward it's thrown me out 🤗💛🌻

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litethatnevergoesout in reply to

Yeah I have rough nights sleeping lately and I have tummy pain as well!

Sleep well! I’ll try to sleep well too.

Deffinate 🌝C

Hi Hidden, I'm beginning to feel & experiencing that. Someone is monitoring the posts & exchanges.I sent a chat to someone who definitely needs some help and it was never received or disappeared into thin air. The information I shared was reputable.🤔🤔🤔

I don't blame you if you feel like you want to leave, it's difficult to trust once your confidence has been misplaced. Please stick around.

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Dolphin14 in reply to

If something disappears completely I believe it means HU has removed the member. We have many trolls here. They come in with great stories but it's fraud. All the time we spend trying to help someone that is telling a lie for attention is very sad.

🐬

in reply to Dolphin14

😒🤔😱

Xene profile image
Xene in reply to

Hi Navar, did the person actually tell you they did not receive your pm? As sometimes members do not wish to receive unsolicited pm’s, just a thought.

in reply to Xene

True, I hardly ever respond to unsolicited stuff.🤔

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MadBunny in reply to

I've noticed problems with chats ( personal messages, not replies on posts) recently and so has a friend . We've been sending them but they haven't been arriving, or if they have they show up hours later. I think it might be a blip in the system. It's not the first time it's happened.

in reply to MadBunny

That could be.👍

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MadBunny in reply to

It seems to have been over this weekend.

Florida1959 profile image
Florida1959

Sorry to hear this.

EarthSitter1 profile image
EarthSitter1

I do wonder about who monitors on any of the groups but I keep coming back as I love the banter on here x

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pamb67

Wishing u all the best 👍

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