is it just me or does every time something goes good in my life something goes bed and I screw everything up. so here's what happened I have had a boyfriend for about 4 months now and I think we were a pretty average couple until earlier today he had said that he wanted the screw me so I asked him what he meant and he said you know like sex. soi said it was to early in the relationship. and he took everything out of proportions and he ended up tying me to the bed and raping me.so that relationship is over and I said the first time we broke up i would not date him again but me being my stupid self dated him again. so now I sware on m life I will never date him again
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eati, what he did to you is a crime, punishable by jail time. No means "no" and if
he couldn't accept that, then he must pay the consequences. I am so sorry. You
did nothing wrong but put your trust in him. Did you tell anyone yet? You should
dear. Harboring what happened to you will just bring on more issues with your mental
health. If there is anything we can say or do to help you, please let us know. xx
I care, my number one priority on this forum is to keep young people like you safe from
I haven't told anyone yet my family really likes him and I don't want to break their hearts they would never forgive me. thanks for all of the support
Hey I really think you should reach out and tell someone! None of that is your fault so don’t blame rape on you. Please do the right thing and reach out to someone! I hope you wouldn’t want this happening to someone else so the sooner you reach out and call the police the better! Best of luck to you. Keep us updated!
Yo yo yo.... if forgiving is involved, it’s not doing or saying anything about it.
You did nothing wrong but look out for yourself! It’s scary, I can’t imagine how much.
Please speak up about this. To someone.
Is there something telling you, to even get back with that kind of person. That’s so disrespectful. They don’t care about you, they care about themselves. That’s uncalled for.
Man, that bothers me. I hope you’re ok.
You matter, and deserve the world. Please speak up to someone, when you find the strength for it.
Much love, good night
i dont want to make the wrong desition i was raised to forgive and forget
i will think about it
i have been raped many times i just don't what people to hate me for reporting it
I'm gonna echo Agora and Detroit_Lions.... what your (what should now be your ex) is a violation of your rights, and is a punishable crime. The wrong decision is holding this information to yourself and not going to the authorities. Because if he did this once, he'll do it again to someone else. As long as you made it clear that you were not interested in having sex with him, then you did nothing wrong nor do you deserve to be violated like that at all. Forgive and forget, sure. But do that after you've taken the appropriate steps to get justice. This will likely have long-lasting physical, mental, and emotional effects on you. He should not get away scot-free, when he was in the wrong.
you should tell that to my old foster parent he had raped me and I threatened to tell some one so he picked me up by the hair and started choking me and my sister found out and he said he would kill us if we told. so I never told but she did. I don't like being threatened about my life my ex scars me
Thank you but it’s hard to let go when you are in this toxic cycle it’s almost like I dream of change. He has apologized and realized he messed up but said he wants to go to therapy. I don’t I feel stuck but he isn’t bad all the time. It is very random. Not making excuses for him but his father was murdered by a family member when he was 14. Grew up in a rougher house than I did. Not sure if this is the stem of his anger but because of Covid the killer got out of jail earlier because a lot of inmates were getting sick. So I get it but I shouldn’t be the punching bag.
it wouldnt let me message you
it wouldnt let me send anything
i did you said hi but it wouldn't let me respond
ik my live is kinda a living hell i think i need a man in my life every second but men offend me
no i mean i dont have a phone number
it wont let me type on messages
no im on my computer
dont have one
I was first sexual a salted when I was 5 by my papaw and everything hasn't been the same since. guys call me easy I am way too clingy and now have depression anxiety and trust issues
idk my life is all kinds of ****** up
dont be sorry it didnt happen to you
tecnekly i did
ik what u meant
a abusive mom stepdad granny papaw and boyfriend would but out their cigarettes on me and hit me
thanks but its ok im used to it
i told you its fine im fine
cheyanne or renee
thank you but i am fine ******Up , Insecure, Neurotic & Emotional. FINE — Frustrated, Insecure, Neurotic, and Exhausted. FINE — ******up, Insecure, Neurotic, Emotional. FINE — Fanatical, Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional.
i wouldnt but i will have my sister do it is that ok because I am scared of him
i understand where your coming from what type of man would put his hands on a girl only a man that is to scared to but his hands on another man but that is only my opinion
i wouldn't be me without all i have went though
the should.... that is just normal for them they don't think anything of it
but we don't know what goes on in their mind they could just have liked me a lot and wanted to have sex with me but IDK maybe they did just want to rape me because i was vulnerable
my dad always told me I'm never too young for sex
im feeling better this morning you
she alredy did and he has a court date soon
how are you feeling today
Seems like that guy has problems, perhaps you should report him as he seems like a potentially violent person. Do you have any safe people around you to help keep you safe?
um idk i had to go to tharipy
no i just talked about my family and some other things
ik but mentally i cant do that
ik i appreciate all of yall
have a genuine friend most people cant handle me
i mean i think i am
idk people just say i care to much and love to have even if I'm just trying to be a nice friend I care about people to much
im so sorry your not to emotional
dont worry i never shut up either
fine i guess you
thats always fun
so how did your day go
you live in Indiana is it nice their
no reason I'm glad you like it there
i have a question can i ask it
why are you still talking to me on here I'm pretty sure you have better things to do than sit there and talk to me
no that person is my mom she abandoned us I live in Kentucky rn
thank you you seem like a nice guy
good you i wish more guys in Kentucky were like you
ah that's so sweet
how are u
do you want trump or biden
ik. your the only person that agrees with me on that
What if trump wins
because everyone thinks that all the world is about is sex but I mean I enjoy sex but I care more about love
I know from experience it takes tremendous strength to end a relationship and never look back. I can count on one hand how many times I’ve done it. Major kudos to you for immediately kicking him to the curb.
I consider myself a very good person and yet I’ve had maybe ONE relationship with someone actually worthy of my time. It ended because it became clear to me that I wasn’t “the one” for him. He was good to me, but after 3 years the thought of marriage hadn’t even crossed his mind. After that long, if you can’t even IMAGINE it, it’s not going to change. I often wonder if it’s ME, but if so, it’s not that I’m defective. I’m choosing the wrong men. I become more focused on helping THEM than my own happiness and the things I DESERVE. So before you blame yourself, consider maybe you’re making the same mistake and if so, ask yourself why?
No i am serious
ik but thats what i grew up around trust me I know a lot I shouldn't know
thats not what i was talking about like I'm more of a submissive person
then why did you ask lol
I am sorry
☺️ thansk for the reassurance
u ok lol
what do you mean
yes i do enjoy school i want to be either an actor,singer, or surgan
wait how do you know about submissive and dominant people
how was your day
hey u up
fine ig u
y do u even care I am a complete nobody and you have better things to do
oh im sorry
nothing im fine
no, i just don't want to worry you with my troubles
both of my biological parents died today
why does everything have to happen to me
my mom always told me " keep m face in the sunshine and you will never see your shadow " but why did I have to look back
youll always be happy if you dont stay in the shadows it like a famous saying
ik that sex isent about excitement but I know that I like to please a guy you cant tell me you have never wanted a girl to please you if you were dominate
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