Upset

[Katelan24]

I was engaged for two years and it only took him two weeks to find someone to keep him busy. Very upset and I feel like I’m worth nothing and no one will ever love me again.

[Redfox9]

hey, your words are too good, i just took Screenshot of it, so that i can read it whenever am feeling bad.

But can you tell me one thing? The another person which cheated is damn happy with new one and here i am, how can a person stay happy,leaving other into miserable condition. my belief in karma is decreasing day by day.

[Katelan24 in reply to Redfox9]

Same thing Happened to me

[Redfox9 in reply to Katelan24]

how you're dealing with it? there's a void in life which dosen't seem to fill up soon, although there's lot improvement, but just one thought pull me back a few steps.

are you fine now?

[Katelan24 in reply to Redfox9]

Yes

[Redfox9]

thanks, am trying my best, but it's damn hard.

[Katelan24]

Thank you so much.

[faulhallen]

Don’t let the amount of time it took for him to find someone new alter your self image. There are a couple ways of looking at it but it’s truly not worth damaging your outlook for.

You can say that you’re nothing and not worth it and replaceable, which only hurts you.

You can say, well everyone grieves differently, choose to believe he’s doing it to help him cope and take that however you want.

Or you can shrug your shoulders say f—- him! If we were meant to be together this wouldn’t have happened anyway and focus on yourself. Which you should totally do regardless of which option you choose.

I was married to my ex-wife for 10 years. I suggested she start trying online dating partially to get her out of my hair and she took to it so quickly it would have been heart wrenching. She now has a steady boyfriend for the last 2 months and has been on probably closer to 12 dates with at least 4 other guys and I still haven’t been on one official date in the now roughly 5 months since we separated. It’s not for lack of trying though 😢

Regardless, what she does and who she does it with is only of any concern for me in relation to my children. Dwelling on what she has and I don’t would only hurt me and it was my decision.

This may not have helped much and I’m sorry. I’m in a bit of a mood to put it simply.

Either way I’m sure you’re a lovely person inside and out. If you ever need to just vent feel free to send me a message.

[Stilltrying_]

I'm sorry to say this but that thing was probably started before you "split" ie he was either talking to her/seeing her already or had her lined up. It is incredibly hurtful and devastating for you but as others have said it is more a reflection on them and the kind of person they are than on you. At least he could have been upfront and honest with you about how he was feeling and what was going on. Perhaps he felt under pressure to stay in the engagement when it wasn't really what he wanted but wasn't "man enough" to be honest with you about this?

Time will heal. Yes, honestly. Give it time and you will find a better person than this. Karma says this man wasn't for you and the true one for you is out there for you. You will meet them in time and be happy.