very upset

[IloveMary]

I am very upset I use to work in a school K-2 but I can't do it no more I have major depression very bad anxiety I found out that I have a brain tumor I have a 7 month old baby boy that I can't even take care of I can't even get a break when dose it get better..

[Manz33]

I’m so sorry to hear this it breaks my heart I have a 3month old boy and I know how much engergy it takes to look after them especially when you sick and not yourself. The only thing I can suggest is to accept all the support and help offered to you by friends and family don’t try do it on your own. You have to think of yourself and get yourself better 🙏I hope that’s things get better for you and don’t be hard on yourself for having the anxiety and depression anyone in your situation would be the same .

[IloveMary in reply to Manz33]

thank you for the kind words

[tamka38]

Hi IloveMary am so sorry to hear that you’re having a hard time.

Having mental illness and physical illness and a 7 month old baby.

Is a lot to take on, Do u take any meds for your depression and anxiety.

And what is the doctor saying about your tumor?

My mom had a seizure on Nov 18Th first time ever having one.

They did a cat scan and found a brain tumor.

She see the doctor on Jan 24th so we will know what’s next.

I will be praying for u and u can reach out to me anytime

[IloveMary in reply to tamka38]

thank you for the kind words I go back to see the Dr this Friday

[tamka38 in reply to IloveMary]

You’re very welcome, I will be praying for you. Am here if u ever need me. Please

keep me updated. Don’t want u to feel like

you’re alone because you’re not. Sending you lots of love And hugs 🤗 🙏🏾❤️🌸

[IloveMary in reply to tamka38]

thank you

[Hidden in reply to tamka38]

I will be praying for you and your mom as well!

[Hidden]

I’ve never been a mother, but I’ve been a daughter of a mom who has depression and chronic illnesses. At 7 months old she will not remember anything but remember this for when she’s a bit older. She will not love you any less if you need to accept tons of help from family. She will never stop adoring you even if you can’t do everything for her. All you have to do to be a good mom is love her in every way you can and look out for her best interest always. Situations may hurt her along the way, but someday she’ll look back and you’ll be able to share more and more as she matures. She’ll realize as the story falls together that you fought for her and loved her. You fought your own mind and illnesses to be her living breathing mom and that in its self is the most courageous act of love. I wasn’t ever mature enough to see that with my mom and it was something I think she always needed to hear. But now at 17 I’ve heard enough of the story and I’ve dealt with a lot of the same mental health issues myself to know how hard she fought for me. I hope that resonates in some way. I know my mom needed that a long time ago and I know looking ahead at her whole entire life is overwhelming. But you are doing amazing. Keep us updated on here I’ll be praying and sending good vibes to you and your entire family!

[IloveMary in reply to Hidden]

thank you for sharing that with me it made me cry because I was not thinking in that way

[Hidden in reply to IloveMary]

💓

[chinaandback]

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. Just do what you can. Take care of yourself. You son knows you love him. Accept help from family, friends and neighbors. Hopefully something here can give you hope: list.ly/list/1CE4-looking-u... Saying a prayer for you!

[IloveMary]

Thank you