Viral and Suicidal

[tenderhearted]

I am so desperately in need of advice, my life could literally be a movie. Explicit photos of me have been posted online of me, along with horrible rumors. Everything from me being incompetent, a prostitute, liar, drug addict, thief, worthless mother, STD ridden, simple minded, etc... It's absolutely killing me on the inside for so many reasons. For one people think that I uploaded these images and I deserve what I am getting. Also I have a LONG history of sexual assault/molestation that has been leaked and people either think that I've lied about it or either they make fun of me about. I can't have them taken down because no one will tell me the direct source. On top of that, I've just had a beautiful baby girl a few months ago, and her father treated me like dirt. He even went as far as to spit on me. So I am trying to get over his abuse, but I am constantly getting abused by strangers whenever I leave the house. It's gotten me to the point where I am borderline suicidal. I feel like I am in the middle on an ocean trying not to drown. Any advice would be of great help. I never knew people could be so cruel.

[Hidden]

Oh my goodness this is a mess. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Do you have family you can go to? What about the police, have you called them? This man that spit in your face is a horrible person. You sure do not deserve to have that done to you. I'm here for you! Love, peace, light, joy & hugs!!!

[bw333]

Sorry U r enduring this. May U find some peace!💗

[hypercat54]

Hi it's against the law to do this to anyone so contact the police straight away. They can get them taken down regardless of who posted them. They will also investigate and prosecute the person who did this. x

[Hidden]

You are not alone. I made bad decisions in the past. I became spiritual and ask a God to forgive me of my sins and then let it be as that.. but that’s happening to me. Someone hacked into my FB and sent harassing and sex content messages to other people . And still doing it.. messed with my email. It sux but I can not let it ruin my day today🤔It makes my stomach so sick I can’t even eat. I worry so much. But I quit. As wisely told to Me Social Media is not worth your life. Your baby and you are more valuable than that.. Just get off it for s couple days. Ignore it.. Change your password and back away couple days. It’s not real unless you want it to be.. Who cares about pics... Rumors are dumb who cares!. About gossip it’s just a reflection of oneself.. .. plz nobody is perfect...everybody has something to hide and try so desperately to do..Everybody takes pics. You are not the only person. There’s plenty of people who do it to. Your ex well he will just never know what kind of special little girl he has and that’s his loss.. hope that helps

[fauxartist]

Stop looking at the pics...and as you say.... they are strangers, you'll never see them or know them most likely in your lifetime. Just divorce yourself from reading comments about these photo's and leave it alone. You cannot fix it, or dismiss it, or get them off the Internet.... so..anyone who knows you and respects you will see it's a cheap shot by who put them up, and shame on them....and if you keep your dignity in tact....and make it clear when someone brings it up that you are bigger than this person who did this and won't lower yourself to their level by engaging in in conversation.

[writingforjoy]

I am so so sorry. How hurtful this all is!

For starters focus on that beautiful baby. She is all the lovin a mama needs.

I know people can be so damaging. Perhaps building on the truth that you are a woman of worth, strength, and courage... you are not the things that they are saying. They are liars that you will not lower to their level or give them your time. I know this sounds easier said than done, but when you have an accuser, it is important to address it as it is...a lie. I tell myself when I think I am worthless, "that is a lie! I am more than enough, I am able, I am blessed." It is a start and helps tremendously.

I can't imagine knowing your pictures are out there for all to see, but that is not who you are.

Can you possibly walk away from all the social media and social circles for a season? Can you even possibly start over fresh somewhere else? Is there a local ladies group that you can go to for support maybe a bible study or something with women that hopefully would be loving and encouraging?

Just thoughts. I truly don't know that I have answers for you but much concern. I don't want to simplify your situation in any way.

I pray that you find peace soon. Please remember above all.... YOU ARE LOVED!