I don’t like that it’s ok for his sisters to want him to flirt with other females just to make money

Yeah and they force him to remove all of the us with everything so they become his wife and they have him date females for their company at every event just so he makes them sales in the family business

I just can’t handle it. Even on social media. It’s disgusting and abusive.

They all lie to cover each other and make a world for you / the outsider to feel isolated and alone and your the problem. His sisters have done this with everyone he’s with or married.

It’s disturbing. Plus sisters whom are 40-65 act like 17 year olds or 21 year olds. They never had rules as kids and always allowed to do whatever they wanted and never getting into trouble. Even if they were the bullies or the physical aggressor.

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And if he scores with a celebrity. They are thrilled because it gives them social media /Facebook talk to all of their friends and they glorify it for years and years and years plus they told me all the time yeah well your not ms so and so.

Then they get right back to their small talk in their small town social media area all about his hook ups or who’s next etc etc. “ yeah, the next morning he got out of the limo of ms x because they had sex”. (That’s them ) meanwhile I’m right there. Then they tell me to get used to it.

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His sisters even stalk his next prey by stauaking them at these events. Take tons of photos of them. Get them drunk and stage he’s with them or they are gf/bf to everyone and on social media

I can’t handle this abuse.

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They / he recruited me to work for his family company( first day I met he told me he wanted to hire me and had my resume, then the vp of his family company said get her) well , then he made sure we turned into a major relationship so I moved from va to ca to help/ do his families new start up company / marketing program / sales but they took all and left me with nothing. Not even my laptop and they told me that they know they used me for their company.

[Betty30]

I don't know how old you are...but what confuses me the most is YOU... why in the name of all that is good are you STAYING in that situation? This is YOUR choice... Do you expect to change them?? Do you think 'waiting it out' is going to help. They are evidently happy with their 'life style'...its up to YOU to get out of it.

[sheila1kerry in reply to Betty30]

I totally agree with your reply, run, run, run. This situation sounds really bad, it is going to destroy you if you stay. From what you say these sound like horrible people, why would you want anything to do with him either, if he cares for you why would he allow you to be treated this way. RUN. RUN. RUN.

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Never was nor is a goal to change them. Maybe because it’s a really nasty mean girls game/ bad girls club as they do have labeled as such- I Kid you not which I know its like riding a very bad pony who acts up for sport yet you know its a lie and your a better rider who shouldn't get kicked because its illegal and wrongful to have gone through what took place.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

plus I know that he knows what they have done was - is wrongful as his shrink as agreed.

[Posykelly]

Is this healthy for you? Are you going (based on history) to be able to affect a change. Is the family dynamic you are dealing with dysfunctional or toxic? Do you want to live with this? I hope you find peace.

[fauxartist]

if who ever he is, knows it's wrong....why are they doing it then...nobody can make you do anything you don't want to do...I'm sorry hidden....but this is a really confusing post, is this guy your husband or boyfriend?...and if so....why would you put up with this...and please don't say it's because you love them....if they loved you...they would never do this to you.

[SquirrelsHolt]

I will be 100% honest,like other members I'd imagine have been and that is to do 2 things.......

1) Tell him you won't be treated like this - but you must mean it &

2) Leave,stop contact with any of his family. I've never read such a terrible state if affairs like this and if you decide to do nothing,then they are USING YOU.

Please look after yourself.

[fauxartist in reply to SquirrelsHolt]

absolutely agree....the toxic relationships are shocking to say the least, extremely hurtful and sick frankly. You need to severe these people from your life.