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blue1764
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My boyfriend broke up with me out of no where and completely stopped talked to me with no explanation. We hadn’t been dating that long maybe 2 months and he just totally stopped talking to me with no reason. I’m so attached to him thinking about it makes me want to throw up. I don’t want this to send me into really bad depression but it already is. I’m really not ok. I can’t sleep or eat or think about anything. I just wanna be with him and I don’t understand what I did wrong. Maybe I’m just a terrible person or not worth knowing. I wanna die. Life’s too hard for me and I feel things to strongly. Actually contemplating killing myself. Please help me. I know I need to just focus on myself because he obviously dosent care about me but I’m so torn I can’t even breathe. Help

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You aren't a terrible person, sometimes things just don't work out. I know it doesn't seem like it, but everything will be alright. Read, reply to others on this site, anything to get your mind off your sorrows.

The bad feelings are going to pass and you will be ok. It seems that you might have found it easier to cope if he had been able to say why the relationship was no longer for him . Don't blame yourself, there is nothing wrong with you, there may be other things going on in his life that mean it's just not the right time for him to commit to a relationship. Without an explanation it's easy to think it must be you but I'm sure his emotions are just as complex as yours and there are likely to be lots of reasons why he needs to move on. It really dents our self esteem when we feel rejected by someone we like but relationships only work when both people commit to it. In time someone will come along who feels just as much for you as you do for them. If you can take a deep breath and a small step back from the pain , wish him happiness in his future and be kind to yourself, there really is NOTHING wrong with you 😍 X

I'm really sorry your going through such heart break....and when we invest our whole heart and soul into someone and that suddenly disappears....we are left deviated....I would not take this as you being a bad person....and instead would look at what the relationship was.....he may not have been as invested into it as you were, and often that mixed message is what can cause problems. Or he could have miss-lead you into believing there was more to the relationship than there really was.Your hurting and in a bad way understandably...and nothing anyone says can take that pain away...but if you have a therapist...I would really work through this with them.

Hello Blue,

I know it feels as though the world is closing in, but trust that everything will be ok. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about a month ago. It's been very difficult in addition to all the other things going on in my life. My depression has gotten to an all time high. I went to my Dr. and they prescribed Zoloft. I'm also going to see a therapist. I was letting all the thoughts of him and I become my every thought. I have to realize this is for the best, and I need to move on. You need to work on making yourself stronger. I know it feels like the end, but it's not. I'm there with you. Feeling dread, loneliness, helplessness, sadness. Its heartbreaking, but you will pull through.

💚

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No man is worth killing yourself over. He’s an ass. You really want to anger him? Move on and be happy.

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Go spend time with other people, it will help you with this.

You will feel bad for a while but in time you will begin to feel good again.

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