I'm new hear and I'm just looking for help

My mom is a good mom but all she does is put me down and my dad drinks way to much and in my house everyone hates me and it makes me want to die everyday but I won't get my self to just end it.

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Hi dogroof.

That sounds really tough for you to cope with, I’m sorry for how things are, it’s not nice to be put down. It can make you feel hated, and sometimes people don’t realise just what affect they are having on someone 😞

Sounds like you need to reach out and talk to someone, you’ve made a great start coming here! Well done. 😊

If you don’t think it would help to chat to your mom about it, could you chat to a teacher at school or a trusted family member. (sorry I’m not sure what country you are in or how old you are) I’m in uk.

There is help out there, and you deserve to feel better, you can feel better with the right input...

I am wishing you well and for some peace and joy for you x

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Thanks and my mom doesn't care what I say and I feel wierd talking to teachers and stuff like that plus I'm scared they might like take me away from my family and it's not like I don't love them it's just I don't like that they metally hurt me all the time

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They would want to help you, not take you away.

Of course you love them and they love you too..

In my opinion they just don’t realise the affect it’s having on you...xx

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That actually made me feel a lot better thank you it means a lot

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I’m pleased it made you feel better.

If you get to feeling so low you can’t cope please do reach out at school or wherever possible and available in the country you are in, there is help , and you deserve it..

Best wishes x

[hypercat54]

Hi I am sorry you are living in such difficult circumstances. I would be very surprised if your parents actually 'hated you' but people say lots of things when they are living under great stress. Are you of an age when you can move out? x

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No but soon

[fauxartist]

I'm sorry your hurting and sorry you feel so un-loved....I do hope you can get some help with this. Olivia40 has some great advice and I'm glad she was able to make you feel better.

[maaslider]

I also hope you find the help you need. The comments here are good and also happy Olivia40s advice was helpful. I agree and doubt anyone would “take you away” esp given your age. Family counseling could help, sounds like having someone help each of you become more aware of how/what is said to each other afffects each person. Many times we react/or reply in a manner that becomes unhealthy but unfortunately a habit. I had the same issue with my parents, who were under stress and started treating/reacting to each other very negatively and it eventually affected me as well. I wish we had gone thru counseling as a family but I’m a bit old and that wasn’t an option then. There are so many options now than 10, 30 yrs ago obviously so I hope you find someone or something for everyone or at least you. As one person stated, it’s doubful anyone hates you, they aren’t aware of the impact they are having on you. Best wishes for you- M