Alone

[Cat26538]

I feel like I’m being treated unfairly. Mom wants me out of her house but won’t let me leave. I’m constantly fighting with her. It’s not good for my health. I’m sick and tired of being in a family that doesn’t care about me. Mom has me believing that I’m worthless and hopeless. I don’t know what to do anymore.

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. If people could walk in our shoes, then maybe they would be more understanding! I'm here for you! I wish you peace! XXX

[Cat26538 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you

[Hidden in reply to Cat26538]

No need to thank me. like I said I'm here for you anytime! XXX

[Celtic27]

Hi cat sounds like youve got a very poisonous relationship your mum will push once to often and you will leave ! Your mum sounds like she doesnt want you to leave because shes afraid of being alone but if shes not willing to get help with her what may be depression or anxiety you really need to leave for the sake of your own health i wish you well and hope things improve soon !

[Cat26538 in reply to Celtic27]

I would leave but she has legal guardianship over me. Which means I can’t leave. She isn’t afraid of being alone. She has 3 of my brothers living with her as well. She is a very toxic person. I’m always being accused of lying and stealing. I’m so sick of her

[Celtic27]

Hi cat i dont know why your mom has legal Guardianship are you over 18 or disabled to the point someone somewhere has decided you cant live alone in that case you can go back to the agency that actioned it and let them known your so unhappy and need a less toxic place to live i do hope you can get the help you need

[Cat26538 in reply to Celtic27]

My parents consider me disabled. I’m not. I have lived on my own before. However I need to get away from here ASAP. Idc about the legal guardianship anymore. I almost left the other day but I couldn’t because mom said she would call the cops on me and have me arrested. I just can’t stay here anymore. But idk what to do.

[Julierosa in reply to Cat26538]

Do you have a social worker you can speak to or a therapist? They should be able to help you with a new placement. Don’t run away, it will make it worse

[hypercat54]

Hi how long is the legal guardianship for? There must have been proof that you needed this otherwise the authorities would never have granted it. They wouldn't have done it on your mother's word only. Do you think you still need it?

You need to get this challenged though I don't know how you could go about this. Good luck anyway. x

[Cat26538 in reply to hypercat54]

They got the legal guardianship when I was a kid. I’m 28 now and I don’t need it anymore.

[hypercat54 in reply to Cat26538]

Well in that case you need to challenge it then! x