Fighting negativity

[Lostlittlegirl_]

Earlier, while reading a book I started contemplating my life and the way I see things.

I always felt that no one likes me and no one ever appreciates me. I felt like if I disappear one day no one would ever notice or miss me.

I feel like my boyfriend’s family will not like me and they are against me. But, it’s not like that. It’s just the way I think. (Hopefully)

I feel like if I don’t show up to my friends that’ll be fine with them and won’t feel like someone’s missing.

Full of negativity.

But, I don’t like it. I’ll change it. I’ll do everything to change it. So help me God.

I hope people with similar thinking as mine can change it also. I hope everyone well.

[Hidden]

Please try to turn that negative talking in your head into positive thinking, even if for a few minutes! I have faith in you that you can do this! Sending you peace!

[gerg in reply to Hidden]

Being liked or loved made me sad. I found out that was because I didn’t like myself. I gave away too much control of my feelings by making up the things people thought about me. The part that makes it doubly irrational is that I never made up good things about me. I control only me, and that is a big enough job. What others think about me is theirs to deal with. I like myself or I make change until I do.

This stuff is hard, but it’s worth it.

[Hidden in reply to gerg]

You've got the right attitude So keep up the good work! People are always going to talk, that's their problem not ours, we have enough to deal with!!! XXX Peace!

[Lostlittlegirl_ in reply to gerg]

Exactly, I never made up good things about me. That’s why I think people also see the same. Thank you. I’ll do my best to live ignoring negativity!

[Starrlight]

Ive been thinking about this too. My perspective is off, leaving my passionate life for a scary depressing one. I am being really aware of my thinking and will let go of the all that negativity. I did it once years ago and mindfulness meditation really helped.

Best to you! I really think we both will be successful. Let me know from time to time how its going?

[Lostlittlegirl_ in reply to Starrlight]

Wow! You did it before I won’t think twice that you can do it again!😊

Sure! I’ll let you know. Thank you. Do the same my inbox is open!

[Starrlight in reply to Lostlittlegirl_]

<3

[Hidden]

Honestly you've got the right mind set, now just put it into action! Sending you a joyful day! XXX

[Lostlittlegirl_ in reply to Hidden]

Thank you! Your support and everyone’s really means a lot!

[Hidden]

no need to thank me, that's what I'm here for!!!! Reach out any time! Peace be with you!