Good morning fellow lupies went to hospital appointment yesterday had a biopsy taken which was a very painful experience as they had to do it up and through my cervix - had another ultrasound and the consultant showed me a have a large cyst like mass right in the middle of one ovary, the pain I have been getting is the mass is squashing my bladder , he also showed me on the screen another one outside my ovary - they still don’t know if it’s cancer but regardless I have to have hysterectomy and removal of ovaries with in 4 weeks, the next stage is a CT scan and wait for results of biopsy - I asked how long I would be in hospital so he said 5 days as they have to monitor my Lupus as was told I’m a very complicated case 😂 trust me - anyhow I’m pleased that everything is happening so quickly but just another waiting game - I’ve got my head round it all now and feel calmer today- I’m already worrying how Bea and Mira will miss me so much when I go in to hospital 🐶🐶
Thankyou everyone so so much for all your kind comments ❤️
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What an ordeal you’ve been through and I empathise with the painful biopsy. I had to have dye inserted into my womb many years ago following my miscarriages and it was very painful.😫 The young male doctor told me to stop wincing and that it wasn’t that painful! The nurse holding my hand rightly said, “How the hell would you know?” 😆 I loved her for that. Did they say when you’d get the result of the biopsy? It is great they are acting so quickly. Of course Mira and Bea will miss you while you are in hospital but they’ll be by your side during your convalescence. 🥰 Keep us posted with how things go SV. Thinking of you and praying for you. Love and big hugs. 🙏🏻💕🤗😘xx
Thanks so much Spotty that made me laugh with the nurse saying that - the consultant actually said this will be very uncomfortable but just breath through it - who would be a woman - so sorry to hear of your miscarriages 😢 have a lovely rest of the weekend 😘
Oh bless you, my heart goes out to you. After trying for 8 years to conceive, numerous operations and so many drugs I started haemorrhaging and was in having a hysterectomy within 3 days. Mine were fibroids, inside and outside the womb. I am hoping and praying that your biopsy comes back clear. I can understand how very scared you must be and emotional. My Crockett ignored me for two whole days when I got back home but he was won around with crab sticks lol. Please be kind to yourself now. I wish there was something I coukd do or say to make things better for you lovely xxx
Thankyou so much - I’m so sorry to hear of your fertility problems Cecily 😢 life can be very unfair - how is your knee now are you slowly getting back to normal ? Xx
I came through it lovely and so will you. It is not about me today it is all about you. I just wanted you to know that I understand the fear and the pain. It is a horrible thing to go through and I am here if you ever need to vent. Bea and Mira will miss you dreadfully but as Spotty said they will be by your side throughout your recovery. What better to welcome you home than two wet noses, two wagging tales and plenty of slobbers? Heaven xxx
Just think of all the sloppy kisses SV when you come home .fingers crossed the wait is only 4 weeks and you will soon have it over and done with and be on the road to recovery.when I've come home from hospital marley sticks to me like glue whilst millie nips me ..the vet tells me she is putting me in my place and showing her disapproval. 🙄 xxxx
Thanks SML - Ian bought Bea and Mira to see me when I was still in bed this morning and Mira goes mad when she sees me but this morning Bea really told her off as if to say mum is in pain so be careful it was so sweet - have a lovely weekend xx
Wet here so resting foot and crocheting.my 2 arnt impressed I'm off walking duty but they will live.you rest up and try not to over think things. Sending hugs xxx🤗 xxx
Oh SV - I am so very sorry that you are going through all of this right now - gynae procedures even with local anaesthetic can be very uncomfortable indeed. At least they are acting very quickly to get you sorted. 5 days will feel like a long time in hospital but we will be with you online to cheer you up and keep you going through the tough bits. Bea and Mira will be ecstatic to have you home and they will also be very concerned for you too - fur babies make for a great convalescence. Do keep us posted as to how you are feeling at this tricky time - masses of positive vibes and huge hugs to you right now 🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘
It is painful I agree!! I had it done in 2016 n the lady doctor kept saying "just breathe n try to relax" 😹A HCA was holding my hand but the skin was split on that hand n THAT pain helped me to take my mind away a bit from the pain of the procedure!! I had a large mass in my tummy but it turned out to be fibroids thankfully, but I do understand the anxiety waiting causes so I'm glad that they're getting u sorted as soon as possible.
I'm sure Bea will take care of Mira in your absence SV n they will both help u to recover after the op..and of course we'll all be here to keep u company whilst you're in hospital!! 👍🤗
So glad things are moving on but sorry for what a hard time you’re having 🙏, glad you are feeling calmer , Bea and Mira will be fine waiting to comfort and support you when you’re home 👍 nothing like the love of a dog ay 🐶 . Best wishes 🤗x
Oh that all sounds very painful, but - with a bit of luck - you should get the results of the biopsy fairly quickly. At least the painful bit's done and you can move on. I'm better at coping if I can say 'ok, that's done, on to the next bit'
And you have a date for the surgery, which isn't too long to wait these days. Yes, Bea and Mira will miss you dreadfully (and hubby-to-be 🤵 ), but look forward to the lovely welcome you'll get when you return home 🐶🐶. WOW, it'll be amazing!
Hey svfarmer, you have been through the wars. Your great sense of humour is driving you on.
It sounds as though your are in good hands with all the necessary steps being taken swiftly to bring it all to a good outcome.
I pray that your biopsy comes back benign.
Your pooches will definitely be at a loss while you are in hospital, but hey, how much joy will the feel on the day that you walk back through the door.
We are all thinking of you and hoping that everything goes smoothly.
Hello svfarmer so sorry to hear about your ordeal. I went through the same 30 years ago and had a full hysterectomy. I will be thinking of you and send you all my love. Stay strong big hugs 🤗🤗xxx
svfarmer, Every hospital visit makes me crazy leaving my fur babies, but when I return, they are even more loving and caring than before. I know Mira and Bea will be like that for you. I also had large fibroids removed in a complete hysterectomy and they were benign. I so hope you will have the same outcome. After the surgery, be so gentle with yourself and if you don't think you are recovering as you should, do not delay getting back to the doctor's. I had a lot of pain after the surgery, but thought it was normal and tried to be brave and tough. Then on the first follow up, the doctor realized I was not healing internally and I should have listened to my body and taken it much easier. Then the healing took many months. So take it easy.
Thanks Pumpkin for the good advice yes I will have to take things very easy and make sure Bea and Mira don’t jump on my stomach - they are both such cuddly lap dogs xx
You’re more than entitled to a wobble given what you’ve been through but positively is good for the soul and I’m positive you will bounce back quickly 😉
Sounds like they are moving fast and they are taking extra precautions in view of your lupus. You must be in a lot of pain with that cyst pressing against the bladder.
Are you on steroids?
I know Bea and Mira miss you but, like us, they want you to be well cared for!
My heart goes out to you, you don't deserve this. As if having Lupus wasn't bad enough, you now have to condend with this. Mira and Bea will appreciate you even more when you come out of hospital , stay strong x.
What a horrible hand you have been dealt SV. I don’t have much to say except I send you well wishes and a quick, uneventful recovery. I’m sure the pups will understand. Their sense of time is warped by a very strong short term memory reliance.
Sending so many hugs. I do hope everything goes as smoothly as possible.
So sorry to read that your biopsy was painful and will send you my very best special thoughts for a successful operation. Your dogs will be wonderful companions when you get home from hospital I agree with Spotty-ewe. Huge hugs and my very best Lily.
I bet you were very sore after that. Good they know what the problem is and are sorting you out quickly. It must also be a relief they are so intune with lupus, so you're in good hands. Much love xxx
Hi. What a warrior you are!👏 My you are going through it. XAnimals are the best therapy and they will understand you are poorly after your ok and give you lots of love to help your recovery.🐶🐕
Sending you a virtual hug and positive thoughts to get you through this difficult time.
You are an amazing individual - never forget that!😘
Sending much love your way as you worry for yourself and your dear dogs over the coming days.
After my hysterectomy the surgeon wouldn’t let us ladies go home until we had gone up and downstairs AND lifted one of the ward’s chairs in the air!! It was to prove how strong our stitches were! I refused and told him I had bulging discs and wouldn’t normally lift anything too heavy, but also after the op I had painful constipation and that was worse than anything from the op. My tip would be take laxatives maybe prior to the operation, if your surgeon agrees. I did get them once I asked of course.
Hi Krawlins yes very good tip about the laxatives I remember I got very bad constipation last time I had an operation. What a character your surgeon was asking you to lift a chair - that made me chuckle 😂 Thankyou so much xx
Sorry to hear of your problems I haven't been around lately just reading about what you went through is enough to make me wince I hope you get your results soon there's nothing worse than waiting for results. When you come out of hospital Bea and Mia will appreciate their mum even more and will have missed you and will give you loads of kisses and will cuddle up to you while you rest. I will be thinking about you and praying for you🙏xx
So sorry to hear your news and having to go thru such a painful procedure. We ladies do have it tough!. I do hope all goes well svfarmer when you have the op and i hope you dont wait too long. Horrid thinking about it. Glad you'll be well monitored in hospital. Do keep us posted and all the very best. Xx
Thank you for remembering my foot svfarmer. It has healed really well but ive suddenly got different pain that limits my walking still. Ive just seen the surgeon who says it can take up to a year for foot recovery after an op. Imagine then the healing time you will need!. He's recommended podiatry and says they'll sort me out. Luckily i was already on their waiting list so i rang and got an appt for next week. Im really grateful its soon!.
I do hope Bea and Mira are giving you lots of extra cuddles. You will miss them whilst in hospital. Im really sorry your having to go thru this. Ill keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Keep safe. Xx
Thanks svfarmer, ive got a podiatry appt for 17/7 ,so not long luckily. I was already on the waiting list for it. Have you heard anything more about your op?.
I was surprised at a year and horrified at the same time. Just itching to improve my life as ive been so curtailed for 2 years now because of this foot.
Oh it’s really not fair is it - not too long to wait for your appointment - no haven’t had any more appointments through yet - I’m just feeling so tired which is nothing abnormal for me 😂 have a good rest of the week xx
IT really is so unfair svfarmer what your facing!. I'm grateful I've only pain problems unlike you. 👌🏻, you have your op soon. Horrid having it hanging over. Take care. Xx
Oh SV I really feel for you.. sounds like quite an ordeal you went through💕 I hope your pain has eased up today & you feel more comfortable enabling you to get your strength back ready for your op.
Maybe you can face time Bea & Mira from hospital🐶🐶 may put your mind at rest?? ..when we have animals especially dogs, we always worry when we leave them even for just a short time ... I did.
Thinking of you & sending you loads of best wishes & gentle hugs & good luck for your op keep us updated.
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