The funny side of lupus #19

Ha!! This is a fabulous post. Do you mind if we share Deadpool? He is gorgeous and my ideal partner. 

I too am single and not ready to mingle due to my lupus. Its hard enough entertaining a thought let alone BE entertaining on a date hahaha. 

Besides, the last guy I dated said that my illness took up too much of my time and I didnt have enough time for him. Oops how selfish of me to have a chronic, incurable illness...next time I choose to get sick Ill make sure it is with a much more considerate one. (sarcasm alert!!)

Keep smiling Mandy. 😊😊

Hi mine forgot his vows after 23 years ! I tried a new model last year after 10 years on my own and he was fine with my condition ,( retired police officer )  but failed to tell me he was a chronic alcoholic! And a sly one with it , it was fine till I noticed and that was when he came to stay and his milk which he drank a lot of was half vodka ! So after a very messy break up after 9 months I am back on my own again and 12 months on from that disappointed, it's been a bit tough as before " D" I was very contented on my own now I am not so ! But I think it's how it has to be because what. Can I offer a man now ! 

I  realise that to have a partner with this condition for a man to cope he has to have been with you a long time and truly love you ! And that is something I have never experienced! Which in itself makes me sad ! Of what I have missed out on ,my children are wonderful 2 daughters and 1 son but it's not fair on them and the guilty I feel as a parent is not good , I wanted them to fly and they are all gravitating back home ! 

Hope this isn't to miserable a post ! 

Hugs to all 

Chris 

Now you are talking Chris!!!

.... Indianna Jones, Raiders of the lost Ark era..  

I can see my future now, a house full of cardboard cutouts 😊 

Keep going Mandy! You're a tonic 🍸😝👍🏼!

Hi to you all

Love reading your posts. My husband also forgot his vows and I eventually was with someone new for 10 years and then both my children died very close together and what with the shock and grief and trying to cope with Lupus he left a message one day and said I was dragging him down and making him depressed!  Poor thing 

Now like you I have decided to live with my posters, my good friends and try to remember the happy times in my life and not grieve as well for the things I can no longer have and the person I no longer am. Dead pool sounds perfect shame you can't share him with everyone

Hugs to every one

X

Catcon 

I am a male from Alabama in the southern U.S. I will have to admit, I have a wonderful wife. In September will will be married 35 years. About 2 years ago I was  diagnosed with lupus. One thing led to another. I have had high blood pressure for 10 + years. I am not over weight (5 feet 10 inches and I weigh 165 pounds. Then  was told I had COPD  and malignant hypertension, they can find no reason for high blood pressure. my wife Laura has stuck with me through thick and thin beside me all the way. We go get pedicures together. I can't wear shoes most of the time due to rashes/blisters on feet. She says that I have to go barefoot my feet should be neat and kept up. After that we may be in the lake in the boat fishing. 

I thank God for my wife!

Tiras

You are a very lucky man and may I wish you and your wonderful wife many more happy years together.

May your troubles be less and your blessings be more with nothing but happiness going through your door.

Best wishes

Mandy