Is when after being on your own for 20 plus years, due to ex husband forgetting what the vows of marriage, after 10 years, 'in sickness and health' actually meant.........
You decide to find someone else to share your life with, who will love, cherish, enjoy, be a partner in all you do, support each other in lifes ups and downs you know, all the things that a marriage entails and grow old together appriciating each others quirks, good and bad points and entering the twilight years with the proud knowledge you have achieved to set out what you planned......
Then you remember......... you have lupus.......and who in there right mind would take that on knowing what we all go through, every minute of every day.....
So........Everyone.......meant the new man in my life.......
SEXY, GREAT ASS, DOESNT LEAVE CLOTHES EVERY WHERE, FORGET BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSERIES OR BILLS, NEVER TALKS, LOOKS FANTASTIC AND BEST OF ALL SITS QUIETLY IN THE CORNER ALLOWING ME TO SHOUT, SCREAM, CRY, LAUGH, ALL IN ONE DAY WITH NO CONSEQUENCES..............that my lupus friends is an ideal lupus relationship.
Welcome to my new man DEADPOOL......
(For those of you not geeks like me, he is considered the females of a certain age, crush of a super hero..... lol)
and no, I have not overdosed on my oxycodine, just decided that the complications of having a real man in my life after this long is just tooooooooo stressful. Lol
May the universe give those of you with loving, wonderful partners, the strength to carry through each others ups and downs... if you come this far, your doing fantastic and I am very jealous....
Much love, Mandy. Xx
The funny side of lupus
Hi mine forgot his vows after 23 years ! I tried a new model last year after 10 years on my own and he was fine with my condition ,( retired police officer ) but failed to tell me he was a chronic alcoholic! And a sly one with it , it was fine till I noticed and that was when he came to stay and his milk which he drank a lot of was half vodka ! So after a very messy break up after 9 months I am back on my own again and 12 months on from that disappointed, it's been a bit tough as before " D" I was very contented on my own now I am not so ! But I think it's how it has to be because what. Can I offer a man now !
I realise that to have a partner with this condition for a man to cope he has to have been with you a long time and truly love you ! And that is something I have never experienced! Which in itself makes me sad ! Of what I have missed out on ,my children are wonderful 2 daughters and 1 son but it's not fair on them and the guilty I feel as a parent is not good , I wanted them to fly and they are all gravitating back home !
Hope this isn't to miserable a post !
Hugs to all
Chris
Hi chris, of course its not a miserable post, its an honest post and thats why I put my #'s up there for all to see and share...
If it helps, I am happy to post pic of my James bond and cyborg too...lol, that way we can all have blow up pics in different rooms.....lol and smile each and every day....
Much love
Mandy. Xx
Brilliant I think if I posted my little dalliance last parting shot to me ! About my condition you would find a gun and shoot him ! Although he did apologise when he sobered up two weeks later !
It all caused me a lot of pain ! I new there would be issues with my condition but the more stress he caused the worse I got and by the end I had double incontinous issues which I hadn't had before 🙁😳 I am pleased to say that has subsided but I still have not got in myself what I lost !
But I wouldn't mind young indie Anna jones when Harrison ford made the first one !
Hugs
Chris xx
We need a 'hug' click..
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Hugs, kisses, hands of help and of coyrse the hugging from deadpool and my cyborg... i hope this helps and u r ok.
Much love, Mandy. 👋👋💛
We do and a gentle hug one too! 😊