Name is Ali and I am a 58 yr old Mum and grandmum. Always been a stay at home Mum doing part time jobs to fit around kids. Always been a childminder, nanny/housekeeper, mentor, lay counsellor and of late helper of elderly people with a little housework and companionship.
Member of local am dram mostly as theatre organisor or stage manager (I do not act) I was ever one of those people who joined a lot of committees and organised charity events etc. Had to cut down on that now, couldn't stage manage a fart in a paper bag these day!!!r !
Have four grown up children and one 12yr old grandson.
Hub is a counsellor and supervisor of counsellors and I am very proud of him. He started college in his early forties and has since got a degree and a whole raft of qualifications and is now out on his own with a practice after taking early retirement from his day job.
As a counsellor he sometimes comes across patients with fibro (I can give him plenty of input there)
I am bit of an old hippy, you would find a lot of interesting clutter and books in my house.
Have been diagnosed with fibro for about five years now but it took a long time and a lot of trips to docs and clinics to get here.
I am a poet and I believe that writing down what is in your head is sooooo important. I have had two years of counselling therapy myself and cannot recommend it highly enough.
My motto for life is now "IT DOESN'T MATTER, DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF"