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Hi all, haven't been on for a while. Battling my depression, can't seem to get it under control. My poor mom lost her battle with c.o.p.d last Friday , so have had her death to contend with as well , funeral in 2weeks....family not exactly close so all 7 of us in the car that should be fun. Sorry it's not cheerful news I have but that's life.

Was thinking about some of the rhymes and sayings she use to come out with, gins and VG you two would of got on really well with her as she was as mad as you two lol.

As saying from my mom.....I hope your ear holes turn into arsholes and s..t all over your shoulders ....remember that one if there is some one out there you don't like lol. A rhyme for too, what was it now?...oh yes: I, I, I can your mother ride a bike, with her t..ts in a sling, and a finger up her thing and the bells up her a.se go ding-a-ling-a-ling.....lol....hope every one has a good day, don't get blown over in the wind, went out in the garden with the hound and it is really windy, nearly blew my wig off!

Vikki xxxxxxxxx

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Hi, Vikki I am so sorry about your Mum I send you a big hug ((((((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))) she will always be with you my friend in one way or another, so take heart and try to enjoy all the lovely funny things she ment to you.

Incidentally are you suggesting VG and I are just a little bit bonkers - of course you are right - it is the only way to be then the others do the worrying not you!



So sorry to hear about your mum , very close to my heart as my OH has COPD and no drs know why .... He has never smoked and has it in both lungs....

Hugs Vgx


Thank you vg, so sorry to hear about your OH. Horrid condition I can sympathise with you.mom was a smoker unfortunately so can understand why she had it.

Hugs back to you xxxx


Gins sorry to say......yes you two are bonkers lol....going to wear the OH hat to walk the hound so I don't loose the wig haha....hugs back gins and thank you xxx


hi vikki so sorry about your mum my mum had copd and other illess it would have been her birthday today if she was still here just remember all your good times that will help you to cope I Too agree with you about VG & Gins and the others now I come on here to cheer myself up they are a tonic and I look forward yesterday blog was so funny I was laughing so much my dog was looking at me as if I had 2 heads ( just me and the dog here during the day son in school & OH in work) you take care

love beth x


Thank you Beth , no that feeling my dog looks at me like that too..lol. They are a great pair they always bring a. Smile to my mush like a ray of sunshine they are

Xxxx vikki


Hi Vikki,

Sorry about your mum, but it sounds as though her humour and strength will always be with you. You never know, your family reunion might be a positive thing, but if not at least you're prepared for it.

Take care, hope you perk up soon.

Love Moffy x


Yes she was one funny lady she will always have a special place in my heart, thanks for the kind words xxxxx vikki


So sorry to hear about your mum Vicki, be comforted by your memories and one day when the pain of her loss eases, you will smile at all the memories you hold dear to you.

Sincere condolences to you. Take care.

(((hug))) xxx



sorry to hear about your mum vicki




Thank you xx


Thank you Libs, to be honest we are smiling now as she has had one hell of a life 86 years long...bless her

Hugs back and thank you again

Vikki xxxx


My deepest sympathies to you and yours. Take each day as it comes x


Thank you and I will xxx


Thinking of you my love. You know we are here if you need us.

Big hugz Karen xxxx


I know you are and thanks so much xx


So sorry to hear about your mum my mum lost her battle with copd 6 yrs ago lk your mummy mum had wee sayings lk.may u be a half an hour in heaven before the devil nos your dead and may the splinters of life always point the rite way up.you will find it hard to cope with lv but it does get easier when i feel sad i just remember all the silly things she said and did and it makes me smile r laugh god bless you lv i no how it feels take care vicki xox


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