To my online friends -
i am the type of person who will do anything for anyone. I view people with an open mind untill they show me they are different and selfish. ie treat others how you would want them to treat you,your mum or granny.
Please know i am not holier than you mentality!
A few weeks ago i had a hysterectomy. i was totally dependant on others- even the dog! i had a vertical cut which has meant my healing / mobility is taking longer than usual. for the first two weeks i didnt really want to see anyone. i let everyone know via texts etc. loads of people were wishing me well in the meantime. when i did feel better i let people know that i was ready for visitors. i was organised and booked them in!
i think you may know where this is going!!
There was one 'friend' who i have done so much for in emergencies and otherwise. she hasnt texted me, called me, visited, sent me a card, emailed me. she onlylives about a mile away and goes out walking her dog.
i am not bitter. i am not angry. i am a grown up and i realise that these things happen. Through many CBT / counselling sessions etc, i can put things into perspective. i am just disappointed.
so yesterday i went through the contacts list on my email account and mobile phone and she is now deleted. and i feel healthy good about it. not vindictive - just calm peaceful.
To be recommended!
sending you all love and feathers