anyone get flare up with so meany diff things

[lyndsay]

the stress of my hubby passing made my fibro very bad skin legs back dizzy cant sleep head hurts bones and shaking hands brain fog week everything hurts try to turn in bed scream out with pain in m bones

[Hidden]

hi lyndsey,im new t the site but av had many words of encouragement,which is sumat iv needed 4 a long time.im so sorry 4 u,my dads just gone t live upstairs 2,im avin the same probs.my dad went on the 26th march it was his n mums wedding annervers but he was in alotta pain n he wudda been 79 on 7th april...i dnt no how old ur hubby was or wot was rong wi him but at least mi dad had many lvly yrs...its so sad that ur hubby has gon but es in ur heart...not the same fing i no...but i dnt no wot t say t u...wish i cud take both the pain fm ur heart n ur body,if only 4 1 nite just so u can sleep,im so sad 4 u.mayb ur hubby will av a word wi the boss up there n try t elp u...u will b on mi mind now lyndsay...more stress 4 me but stress i`ll gladly av t show u that we all care,lots of <3 fm me xx

[Rubberman]

Yes fibro has a lot of different things ilm afraid

but can be eased by different medication

I would see your Gp to help ease this hopefully

all the best

Take care

Rubberman

[Hidden]

hi it is no wonder you are suffering at the min and the trayma of losing your husband so young is adding to your stress and also your pain and flare up you are dealing with mental and physical pain and you need alot of help at the min to keep you on top of the things you need to mourn your husband and that is gonna take time and then you can deal with you r physical pain i think you should got yto your GP and have a real good heart to heart with them you need to write everything down and i think he will help you also have you tried memeory foam mattress on bed people swear by them i cant afford one but they say they are good but you get waht you pay for i do hope that you start to feel on top things a littlke more soon and jus take a day at a time there is no time limit you must go with your body on this one love to you diddle x

[wiccamom in reply to Hidden]

wud just like to let u in on a mattress i bought hun! its reflex at bottom n memory faom on top, best thing i ever bought!! under £100 on ebay, delivered to my door!

[jazher]

Hi lyndsay,

I just want to send you a big gentle hug hun.

Hope your pain eases soon as its horrible what stress can do to us, you take care and we are always here for you.

kel xxx

[Ang01]

Hiya Lyndsay, sorry to hear of your loss but be assured you are not alone and have your fibro friends all thinking of you. Just do whatever your body tells you to do at this time and hope you feel better real soon. Take care, love Angela xx

[VonnyM]

I'm sorry for your loss. You need to see your gp re the pain, it can be through stress, but its better to get it confirmed by your doctor. Quite often ssri's are prescribed, which doesnt mean its in your head, it means that it will help with the pain so that you can cope with other stuff you have to do. Sending you hugs Take each day as it comes. You will get through this

[julie51]

hi lyndsey-yes i agree, i haven't been diagnosed with fibro but i lost my mam 2 years ago and my dad shortly after and my symptoms started nearly straight away. my ears first then ibs problems then back problems.(turning in bed is sometimes agony) went from never really visiting a dr to every 2 weeks and just can't get back to a reasonably healthy situation, it gets to the point where it just gets you down and start fighting depression along with everything else, started a gentle exercise recently to try to fight off these problems, knackered but going to keep going, somethings got to work- hope everything ok-love xxxx

[Bev95]

Hello Lyndsay

I am so sorry about the loss of your husband and I know that this must be a stressful situation for you. As for your FMS well I can relate to the pain you are feeling...I also think that stressful situations like yours does not help matters..Maybe contact your GP if they are sympathetic...perhaps they may refer you to a specialist and perhaps offer you some Bereavement counselling..I do hope that things will improve for you and I know that this can be a slow process... But remember you always have people on here that are willing to offer some support and lend an ear to your pain...! Sending you some gentle hugs

Bev

[wiccamom]

hi i am sorry you are goin thru so much at mo, just remember that things do get easier and people on here are on the whole good and kind! wishing u love, hope and peace hun x