Hi I noticed during the week there that my partner of 10 years was acting a bit odd but due to a flare up of my fibro my mind was elsewhere anyway today I found out from him that his best friend who has a disabled wife and two kids is having an affair. He even has gone to the length of buying a house for to see this woman. You must be thinking why am I so utterly gobsmacked and furious with my partner. He has been helping his friend get the new house ready for the past week and also lifting him and taking him to see this woman. I only found out all this a couple of hours ago, am lying in bed with a migraine and so angry that my partner has taken anything to do with it all. I feel so sorry for the girls who adore their father but who are going to be devastated when it all comes out and it will for these things always do also for his wife who had a car accident ten years ago and was left paralysed from the neck down. Now this family has known and trusted my partner for about thirty years. The girls love him to bits but thats the problem, what on earth are they and their mummy going to think of him when they find out he knew all about it. I'm fuming at my partner for being so stupid. He could have told his friend no sorry I cant do this to your family and took nothing to do with it. Am I over reacting folks or right to be so cross?