My so called family has surpassed everything else they ever did.
My Dad died 2 months ago, leaving 6 children, me in the middle. And we are split down the middle, half dont talk to the other half. Anyway, my Dad died and not one of the other half had the common decency to let any of us know. We were not even told he was ill.
Last week I am told his house is on the market and it had sold within a week. I was shocked and so were the others when I told them. I am not strong enough to fight them anymore but my eldest and youngest brother are. They got in touch with a solicitor who has this week got a copy of my dads will. It was read out to my tonight over the phone. It seems he wrote the 3 of us out of his will in 2005 making the other 3 executives and they are to share all his money and the sale of the house.
I am heartbroken that he has died and we never spoke, I dont know why he stopped talking to me, my sister took total control over him. I invited him to my wedding, he was coming til 3 days before, my sister talked him out of it. I wrote to him regular, but not once did he write back. I have that to contend with as well as knowing he cut me out of his will. I dont want his money, I never asked him for anything. The others bled him silly.
I am hurt to my core...my brothers have been to see solicitors to contest the will and the sale of the house. I dont know if I am strong enough to deal with all this. I cant handle the fact that he has died......WHat do I do how do I handle this??