need to get this off my chest....ive just won a big battle for d.l.a....... ive been awarded 3 yrs thank god and i keep the car....that was nonly about a month ago.....in the mean time my daughter due to recesion has lost her house, her partner is trying work 60 hrs a wk she is working also as a care girl. they literaly pass in the street, one coming in to have the 2 kids who are 5 and 7 and one going out to work, her partner only gets 3 hrs sleep before the next shift, due to having the kids till she comes home from work....anyway to try keep it short , the morgage people are selling there house. they are both giving up there jobs as they have no choice to move down to me 300 miles away.they are staying with me till they get a council house , they both can walk into a job each also......they leave behind my old mum who is 82 with dementia and wrere trying to keep her at home with care comong in, incidently my daughter is her main care girl......she has to leave behind my son who is 35 and has m.s. since he was 20yr.............and my youngest son whos girlfreind is trying to screw him for his house... not counting my sugerpie.....he is her oldest son who is almost 19 and the council said he would have to go in a homeless placeand they think that she can leave him in there and come to me. [ he doesnt want to leave the area as he has a girl friend there and more choice of jobs, he lost his job last wk incidentley. ].on top of all that tday just as i thought things are sorting themselves out a bit, i have received the dreaded leter about my incapacity and d.l.a. i have 1 wk to wait for the fone call.............i wonder how much can someone take who has severe stress fibro and almost everything that comes with it...terable migrains and also M.E. be honest i want to die tday............sorry everyone, i needed to tell it to someone..............