As a lot of you have I too have a lot of problems with my hips and back and at times now I find I can not make the stairs so I thought I would be better off in a house with both a downstairs toilet and a unpstairs bathroom so I arranged and moved last week in to a lovely house which has the downstairs toilet and a bonus upstairs in the bathroom there is a walk in shower as I can't always get in or out of a bath. I thought I would by now be feeling that I was in heaven but no.
The pains have got worse, I used to think at times I was in a bad way but now the pain in my joints is completely unbearable even after taking loads of pain killers. I know the move was hard work and I still have not been able to finish sorting things out but I feel like I have hit a brick wall. Instead of loving my. New house it just doesn't feel like home to me and I can bearley ( I don't think that is spelt right ) move and all my days are just full or pain which in turn has made my depression worse. At the moment I can not for the life of me see away forward, it was meant to make my life better but it hasn't helped at all at the moment and I regret moving.
Has anyone else moved and then felt worse, ( I did not really have any help with the move, one daughter at uni and the other one at school) and regret moving. I really wanted this house to help me but I feel so tired and down and I can't sleep for move than a couple of hours due to the pain.
The whole house is to me a mess ( I used to be so tidy, ) my washing machine got broke in the move. I really don't know where to go or what to do.
Please does anyone have any advice I feel so alone, I can't get the younger daughter to help out anymore than she already does as she is about to start her AS exams so its down to me.