Hi everyone, sorry this is long, I hope you are all having a ‘low pain’ day.
I was just wondering, out of curiosity, if anyone else has suffered from abdominal infections caused by endo.
I am just getting over my third this year and have trouble identifying when the pain is infection as I’m sure you will all relate to extreme pain being a constant for us. I left this latest infection 10 days before I went to a&e because as many of you know we often get dismissed by doctors with little knowledge of our condition. I knew I needed to go as even tramadol and oral morph weren’t touching the ‘shout out pain’ and it was spreading up from my lower back, I hadn’t been able to eat very much for days, felt extremely unwell/weak and my skin turned a funny grey colour with my lips turning pale with a blue tinge!
As I’m on an urgent list for total hysterectomy, excision and bowel resection and as I’m post menopausal with endo and adenamyomas that is still growing fast, I took all my latest scan results and consultation letters and went in with an attitude of, I’m not here for you to fix me, I think I know what’s going on, I’m under the care of a specialist endo centre and I just need my inflammatory markers checked to make sure I haven’t got an infection again as when this first happened to me a few years ago I ended up in hospital for about a month with sepsis and then cdiff as I left it too long to seek help.
To my surprise I had a really positive experience with a fantastic doctor. She listened to my history and acknowledged I knew more about my body and condition than she did as I’ve lived with it since age12 and I’m now 56. She took the bloods as requested and I explained to her I didn’t want to take antibiotics just in case as I’ve already had them in the last 8 weeks but needed reassurance of no infection as I felt so ill.
My results came back an hour later and my inflammatory makers were very high, so on the strong antibiotics again, which in themselves make me feel so unwell. The doctor said she really wanted me to take them as I had complex heath conditions and she said with makers that high I would be probably be in hospital in a few days if I didn’t.
I really appreciated a doctor who was kind, listened to me and was honest, it was quite a shock really. What was so impressive was how concerned she was about me and my husband and how we cope as I’ve had years of this, 10 abdominal surgeries, breast cancer and now also battle with fibromyalgia the combination of which leaves me bed bound most of the time and I admit after years of this I am very low and worn out with very little left in the tank. The only thing that keeps me going is the hope my life can improve, so I can at least live a bit and not just exist, after I get through the ‘big’ surgery.
I know this is a long post but I just wanted to share to say to all you brave people on this forum, trust your instincts, you know your body best and please don’t leave things just because of the many bad experiences we have to go through with doctors. I have let myself again get very sick before going to the hospital, if I’d gone a few days earlier I could have probably had another antibiotic that didn’t make me feel so unwell and not had to get so very poorly.
I think the problem is we learn to live with daily pain and health challenges that most people who are well would find unacceptable even for one day!
look after yourself lovely people and I wish you a restful and peaceful festive time, even if like me you can’t join in with much please make time for yourself, say no when pressured into doing things that you know you’re not well enough for and put yourself first for some quality time for yourself doing Yuletide your way.
All my best regards
Poppy 🌲