Hi Everyone,
I am new to this group but not new to healthunlocked.
My younger brother passed away aged 59 at the beginning of April. I have spent the last month dealing with everything, from discovering his passing to organising his funeral since my other siblings live abroad. Our mother is in her 80s, severely disabled and has now been diagnosed with dementia. SO everything had landed on my shoulders. My shoulders are broad enough for me to handle it as I have had to.
One issue which has become an absolute thorn in my side has been putting in a request to his GP surgery to give me access to his medical records. My family, especially me and my siblings want to know if he had anything that could have been hereditary that we need to know about.
The Practice Manager keeps sending me this information from the NHS guidance surgeries receive:
1. A personal representative (the executor or administrator of the deceased person's estate)
2. Someone who has a claim resulting from the death (this could be a relative or another person)
I have told the Practice Manager that: my brother did not have a will, he did not have a wife and he had no children. Since I reported his death and am his next of kin as is also recorded on his death certificate, I had become the executor by default. According to the two points above, I definitely qualify.
I have also spoken to a solicitor who advised me to get an affidavit signed and this should help. The surgery told me NO as this was only a statement of truth!
I am frankly lost as there does not seem to be anyone who knows much about this. My own surgery has told me that this is guidance only as they would not be making me jump through hoops as I am currently experiencing. I have asked questions of the NHS Ombudsman, I am hoping to contact NHS England after the bank holiday.
Has anyone every had this experience following the death of a loved one? Where else can I go to find answers or to get my brother's medical records. I do understand that the deceased are also protected, but this is not the main thing that concerns me.
Any advice or information you can share will be greatly received. Thank you!
LadyA