Having a rant

Why is it you have a rant with someone dealing with anxiety, and then you feel a right bitch after.

[hamble99b]

hi lou, if you mean your replies to someone else on this site, you are not a bitch. Your reply was friendly and the person was, sadly, not in a good place.

Read through your replies to others, I did, you are kind and supportive.

regards,

sandra.

[kjm1987]

Don't feel like a bitch, I just left a reply and got a very insulting abusive reply back. There's no excuse for what he wrote, depressed or not. Most of us are depressed but nobody else is goin round insulting everyone x

[hamble99b]

no-one has the right to attack another here. you too, offered assistance and the reply was personal - BUT not you in person as they do not know you. You are right.

regards,

sandra.

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Hi guys thanks for the comments. It was actually about my partner, who has anxiety..............................not for the other person. I dont agree with the way he has replied to yourselves that have taken the time to reply to him. I am felt bad after i ranted at my other half. x

[ellabella]

Aw Lou, don't feel bad love. I'll tell you something I don't think I could find anyone that would put up with me without having a rant. You are not bitch either....they go woof woof LOL. What has been happening love? still the same? xxxxxxxxxxxx

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I get frustrated about not seeing him etc. Actually laid my cards out on the table yesterday. Did some good. Started feeling like things were my fault. He said it wasnt, he was really sorry and that he really loved me. He wants to be with me. Felt really bad after. I apologised to him but he understands aswell. Got my rant over and feel better for it..........................How are you doing? You been a little quiet on here. Things ok. You still on good vibes? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[ellabella]

Hi Darling , I really didn't realise I had been quiet but I must have been as someone else pointed it out to me. I must have been a right obgob lol!. I have had a few problems with my son, he is 39 so not a child at all but mentally vulnerable. He is at the moment in a secure place for his own safety so that is a big worry. Also social housing wanting me to move out of my home because I have a spare bedroom!! I have lived here for over 30 years and brought my family up here and I don't want to move. Got a meeting tomorrow. It sounds as if you feel a bit guilty for saying what you mean my love. Oh I do hope things improve for you...bloody anxiety !! I think I've overdosed on it and come out emotionless for the past week. I can feel myself coming back though. That does happen Lou...might be worth a thought actually for your boyfriend....sometimes when I have a really bad patch I do tend to " not feel things" maybe he gets the same? I believe Sandra said the other day that she does feel like that sometimes as well and probably a lot more of us do as well

Love and Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Hi Ella. How did your meeting go today? Hope you are ok?

Love Lou xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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If you dont want to move dont let them put you under any pressure. You have enough to cope with, If you're home is your have do not let anyone take it away from you. You are a strong person and i am sure you wont be pushed around, Sorry to hear about your son. Kids, the worry never goes away. I have 3 boys and the eldest 2 are 18, and 16. Always worry about them as they are now out and about. At least your son is somewhere that can give him the care he needs, and be there for his safety. I know it doesnt help you, but is it not better than him being on his own in the big wide world.

My other half does seem to have the detached feelings. Its patience and he said all he would do is go to bed and forget about last night. He has rung today. He understands i need to rant once in awhile. He just lets it go over his head.

I hope tomorrow goes well. Please let us know how it goes.

Massive love and hugs. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[ellabella]

Hi Lou , I've just checked my e-mails and found this and I'm so sorry it's 3 DAYS AGO!. I don't know where the last few days have gone....I had my visit and it was a very nice but firm ( only doing her job ) lady. I ended up to my complete horror in tears and couldn't speak! I bet she felt like a monster!. Anyway turns out I have to leave or pay an extra £ 33 .00 a week! out of disability allowance. Just impossible....I have been researching on-line and this is going to be a nightmare bedroom tax on a lot of people. I am coming round a bit now though thanks Lou. I'm turning more to reading my Claire Weekes book and it does help a lot. I will leave any decisions for a while though. Paul is still in mental care and doing ok thank god. How lovely you have your boys ! That is nice to know love. Hope your boyfriend is talking to you and giving you some time....you certainly deserve it Lou Love and Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx