Does anyone have a problem like this. I am 58 years old, married twice with 3 grown up children and 6 grandchildren. I now live on my own which is probably the best for everyone. My Mother treats me as if I am 5 years old. I am on benefit as I am too ill to work and she helps out sometimes with money stuff. In return I am feeling as if I have to be bowing and scraping to her. I have to report maybe 3 times a day to her. Be available 24 /7. Sign in and out of my house. I feel bloody suffocated by her and when I get the guts up to challenge her she just says I am imagining it. She is such a gentle kind woman in front of everyone else in the family so they don't really have any understanding. I am beginning to feel very paranoid about this. It comes up to the surface time and time again. I feel as if she is my jailer and can't stand the sight of her. OMG I am struggling with this, and hate feeling like this . It's just wrong?????