So conflicted *Trigger warning*

[Dolphfan47]

I have no idea what to do I’m so conflicted on how to handle this situation that I am at a loss!! My situation is so confusing but here is the jist of it my husband has his two women living in our house his one women pays us rent she is mental she thinks that everyone in our house should bow down to her especially when she get in her moods. Anyway women A can’t really stand women B at all and this morning women B texted women A and asked isn’t she could take her to work. Instead of answering women A just flat out ignored her. We literally live 5 minutes from her job about a 30 minute walk.. Women B has been giving us an attitude lately because she feels that our chase lounge is her seat but lately because of this crazy weather my osteoarthritis has been acting up and along with me getting shots in my back I have been sitting in that spot so instead of sitting in another seat she has been pouting downstairs.. Anyways women B has been acting moody lately ignoring her boyfriend/girlfriend the issue is she wants them to cater to her come down and baby her because she feels neglected.. My concern is if they continue to do this things are never going to change the stress is always going to be there.. But if they don’t cater to her than she will go out and find someone else and my husband will blame women A by saying it’s because of her treatment toward her that’s why she did what she did and cause a huge fight between them and pull me into it. What do you think? Just for the record me and women B have nothing to do with each other we can’t stand one another at all.

[Agora1]

Hi Dolphfan47, first of all, let me tell you how sorry I am that you're suffering

from OA. It's important that you work with the shot for your back and sit where

you are the most comfortable. Being stressed out, doesn't help the pain.

Whenever there are multiple women living in the same house, there will be these

spats. Each one wanting to be the dominate female. Not unusual.

The less you get in the middle of A & B, the better off you will be.

Your husband's choice to have this situation exist, let him handle the cat fights.

Feel better, I know how the weather can exacerbate your pain, try not to add stress

to it. xx

[Dolphfan47 in reply to Agora1]

Thanks I started getting the steroid shots but they weren’t helping the last shot the dr did was the arthritis shot and I have noticed a huge difference. I go back next week for another shot if it’s the same result as this one than he will do the shot that is supposed to last 6 months.. I am only hoping that works.. they gave into her so she is allowed to pretty much call the shots n our house now.. She gets to act like a complete child for a couple of days and they beg her to come upstairs and of course she is sitting in her spot. I’m not in the mood to argue so I decided I’m just gonna make myself be busy and eventually i will go to bed.. it is what it is I’m over it all right now..

[Agora1 in reply to Dolphfan47]

Dolphfan47, you are doing the right thing for yourself by not arguing.

I'm glad that you have noticed a huge difference with the arthritic shot.

I've heard of others getting it and it lasting 6 months. What a relief that

would be for you. Good Luck next week in receiving the next shot.

Keep us updated. xx