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My son in laws mum was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer that had spread to her brain I got a phone call off my daughter at 4:30 am and was told she sadly passed away she was 51 and my son in law is obviously heartbroken and I feel hopeless I love that boy with all my heart and I had such a terrible time when I lost my mum that’s why I suffer with health anxiety and anxiety I know everyone grieves different but the heartbreak is the same..all I can do is be there for my daughter and son in law and my 2 year old granddaughter but I feel so helpless and obviously I’m really gutted as I known her for 2 years and we got on exceptionally well so I can’t quite get my head round it .,I only buried my beloved uncle 2 days ago and now this what is this cruel world coming too

A very sad Nat xx

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Hello Nat

I was not going to read this as you know I have and am going through a bad bout of HA at the moment but just wanted to say I am so sorry and my thoughts are with you and you family at such a very sad time

Take Care x

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Thanks lulu means a lot it’s triggering me massively now especially my HA cxx

in reply to Natsteveo

I can totally understand

Only thing I can say is when I am worrying and quoting to my Doctor this happened to someone I know or a family member they reply yes but that was them and this is you , we are all different

It does make me think very true even though then the HA will start tormenting me again ! x

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You and me both lulu you and me both our minds and nerves never give us a break

Nat xx

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Amandasullivan12 in reply to Natsteveo

Thinking of you hun xx

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Natsteveo in reply to Amandasullivan12

Thanks so much xx

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blackcat64013

Thinking of you at this time 🦋

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Natsteveo in reply to blackcat64013

Thanks so much x

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mydogs in reply to Natsteveo

Dear Nat so sorry for your latest upset so soon after your uncle,you will find the strength for your son in law just like you do when you help us with our anxiety and depression you are a strong and caring lady and know that your friends on site are with you in all our thoughts and sending you loads of love and hugs please take care of yourself and stay safe xx

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Natsteveo in reply to mydogs

Thanks so much babes I’m doing my best to stay strong for them thank you 🙏 xx

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kenster1

sorry to hear that Nat thoughts and prayers and heart felt sympathy to you all.god bless and take care.

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Natsteveo in reply to kenster1

Thanks kenny I’ll pass your condolences to them thank you xx

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Want2BHappy3

Condolences To your family, that had to be a Terrible way to Die 🙏

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Natsteveo in reply to Want2BHappy3

It must of been she only got diagnosed 3 days ago 😞

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SpinalPain

Hi Nat, I am so very sorry to hear your news. Sending you love and putting you and your family in my prayers. Sandie x

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Natsteveo in reply to SpinalPain

Thanks so much sandie means a lot

Nat xx

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