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[Matt3013]

Hi,

Just feel alone some days. I don’t mean physically but mentally I feel alone.

Like no one I know understands.

Life can feel a lonely and very weird journey sometimes.

Like I’ve lived two lives

[Sunshine0307]

Snap. It’s hard very hard.

[Lindsey14]

I get how you feel

[Natsteveo]

I can relate Matt I constantly feel mentally alone but then I can be surrounded by people and still feel alone

Nat

[Agora1]

Matt, I think you and I have both lived two lives. It's hard to believe

sometimes, that my career put me in harm's way and allowed me to

live on adrenaline rushes. It doesn't mean we are not capable of taking

on another job. After all, who we were will always be a part of us. We

just need to take another road that isn't as demanding. There is something

out there for you. You know that we understand on this forum. The loneliness

for us has come from our anxiety. We once didn't know what that was and we

can't allow it to take over the rest of our lives.

We're here for you but you have to be there for yourself as well. We can comfort

and support you but in the end, it will be you that will take that first step forward again.

I assure you, it will be a challenge that you will win and forever change your life for the

good because you will have won. My best to you always Matt. x

[art62grammie in reply to Agora1]

Hi! How are you doing these days? I think of you often. How is your daughter if don't mind me asking?

[Agora1 in reply to art62grammie]

Thanks for asking. She's just sleeping her life away.

You are so kind. I wish you well. xx

[art62grammie in reply to Agora1]

Thank you, you are kind too. I can not wait for winter to pass.

[masa2333]

I understand. Many other people from this community understand I’m sure. We are all here for you🙏

[Garden987]

Matt Tink I appreciate where you're coming from. I am so lonely there are days when I dom't see the point of trying to Greg well. The people in. my road are mostly computers and don't wknow. Who they are. CDs I .lkste to now k portent it is to have friends /family but I have no one. I am not well with other conditions and repeated infections so I am struggling. I have no answers to give you other than to say I think I know how hard it is. Because of my ill health can't get out so see virtually no one. All I can say is find the love for yourself and be kind to yourself. It is a war of a kind but we are survivors and if we are kind enough to ourselves it might get better. I am not religious but I do believe I Jesus and he told me the other day that he is holding and loving me. I hope you can find some answers". YOu are not alone. I. Hold out my heart to you and hope you will use it. All good wishes. Mary

[Kkimm in reply to Garden987]

Hi Mary

You sound a very caring person.

I hope you and all who are lonely gain support from this website.

There is always someone who cares even if you do not get a reply every time

Kim

[Delzek]

I am agoraphobic, I see my ex and a neighbour pretty regularly, my Friend died last year and since my Mums passing then my Dad's passing, I rarely see my family occasionally one of my kids will visit, ( I normally end up with a fairly empty wallet afterwards)I see my Brother who is in a care home once a month,but my other Brother and Sisters I haven't seen in years,so a Lonely life tbh I prefer my own company and the company of my Parrot friends, I don't know if you have a pet Matt? Mine keep me at least semi sane .

[Kkimm in reply to Delzek]

Hi Delzek

It must be really hard for you suffering from agraphobia. I suffer from anxiety but am very near to recovery now.

So glad you have your parrots. They can be amazing company. I borrow dogs by using the borrow my doggie website.

Wouldn't you be able to visit your brother in the care home more often, I would imagine he needs company as well.

Very best wishes.

Kim

[Delzek in reply to Kkimm]

My Brother has a very full life tbh,he is in a good care home now, it's him and a carer come to see me. He enjoys where he is and he has a routine that can cause problems if he is made to break it.thank you for your reply .

[gggg123]

Your situation is a bit unique though. No two people are the same and not everyone has been through the situation you have. Is there not a specific support group for you ?. Did no one try to put you in touch with one ?.

I personally am here if you want to chat through messenger......

[LadyCourtessa]

honestly i do understand what u talking about

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