Cause of my anxiety

When I was diagnosed with anxiety the doctors said some stressful event lit off the issue. I thought it was my health; but, now I suspect it's mostly due to my wife.

She is the only stress I have in my life, not my job, not my home, not my baby, not my family, not my friends, not my life goals, not my diet, not my motivations in life, not my Outlook on life. Just her.

I'm 32 years old and she talks to me like some asshole for no reason and I don't deserve it, never did. I don't need counseling, she needs to accept the fact that she has an attitude with people judges everyone else but herself and is completely standoffish with anyone she doesn't know.