I drove a painful 1.5 hours down a busy motorway to visit my daughter and son in law . I have to stay over night so as to manage the long drive back . I left just after breakfast and cried all the way home . Either the illness makes me feel mid understood or my children are in denial . I went to bed in agony only to read a text from my daughter ... Not asking if I got him ok but to recommend a hair dye to me !!!