can't catch up to expectations

[voveggie]

I graduated from college this year as photo major. The career has its pros and cons. Since last year, I've had a job as a retail photographer. Sometime after college, I quit on a whim because I've had enough with the company and its issues. I had no back up plan for a job. I've been on the hunt for ANY job I could get. My family has been on my case to find an office job or something of the sorts. But I'd rather have a job I know I'll at least enjoy especially if it pays decent. They keep sending me job applications/postings when I'm not asking for help. I feel like I'm expected to get a higher paying job because my sister got an office job after college and now earns 30/hr. But I just graduated. I don't have the skill sets she has and neither do I have the connections. Im still learning and I'm doing my best. I'm going at my pace and what life can offer rn. I've got the job now. It can only get better from here.

[Dolphin14]

voveggie

Congratulations on graduating college.

As a parent I can understand the concerns. Quitting on a whim sounds like it may have rattled your parents a bit. All we want is a good future for our kids.

You need a job that is satisfying for you. I wish you the best of luck

🐬

[voveggie in reply to Dolphin14]

Thank you, parent. My mom isn't so concerned because she's been disabled most my life and she's never really cared or been aware. My sister raised me and she's been on my case about jobs. she's not being aggressive but can be very pushy at the same time. She's kind of like a helicopter parent if that makes sense lol. I'll starting day 2 of work and I'm excited. Thanks for your kind words.

[Dolphin14 in reply to voveggie]

I understand the helicopter parent... no I wasn't one lol but I know a few

Thanks for explaining the situation a bit more.

I think you are on the right track. You need to be happy with your job, it's your future. Don't take the path others want you to take.

I hope this job gives you some satisfaction.

[HaikuYou]

The possibilities are endless, just keep swimming. Ask your family to ease up on pressuring you. If they don't you can always limit their calls and emails until you are feeling better . Turning off notifications is sometimes the right thing to do. Sending good vibes your way.

[voveggie in reply to HaikuYou]

Swimming!! Will do c: