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So today I officially moved into my new home. My parents were kind enough to stay in town for a few days and spend some time with me. This is my first night on my own in the dormitory. The anxiety is like an elevator - goes up and down. It feels strange to me that in a few days I will be ALL alone in a new country. I will keep you updated. For the moment I can say that I am sad I can’t talk about it to my ex like we could talk before. It would have helped a lot. But since he disappeared without saying a word…

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Thankfulforhelp22

It may be scary and strange but also new, exciting and an adventure that may bring awesome experiences you will treasure. I wish you the best!

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CLB1125

I am so excited for you! We are here to listen to all your exciting adventures! And when you are feeling lonely. You can pm anytime.

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Midori

Try to use it as a brand new start. You will soon make friends If you show you are open to friendship. It's difficult to make a new start in a new country, different customs, etc; but it can work and work well.

Cheers, Midori

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catsrock

Moving is hard. I'll be happy for you when you feel more settled.

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CLB1125

how are you doing so far?

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sad_watermelon in reply toCLB1125

Not very good to be honest… My dormitory is so far from the university and I will have to take 2 busses and their stops are far from me so if it rains I’m cooked, I haven’t met anybody, but I’ve been trying to, I can’t find a doctor, nobody wants me as a patient, I had big problems with the school administration, because they made a mistake and didn’t admit it, but started lying to me, my parents are leavening in 2 days and I am so stressed out, there are no food shops near me, I bought a bike and then they told me it will probably get stolen, there are so few biking alleys and the only way to bike is to go trough very heavy trafics where it’s dangerous, but my parents insisted for me to have a bike and ride it around town….

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CLB1125 in reply tosad_watermelon

Oh that’s too bad. You will have to get a good rain coat and umbrella. Not much divine wisdom I know. I would be in big trouble if I had to depend on buses. That’s something we don’t have around here. When do classes start?

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sad_watermelon in reply toCLB1125

on Monday, the same day my parents will leave and go back home - 2000km away

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CLB1125

you can do this! I have faith in you! We are all here to support you.

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sad_watermelon in reply toCLB1125

Thank you 🥹

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