Mom will take days off work and idk where to hide

[Against_the_current]

Mom's having days off work and idk what i will do. Dad hasn't paid my accommodation and i don't have money to run back to my accommodation but i can ask while i still have it. What i worry is that he will want to pack my stuff and move me out, go through my stuff, mom eill wonder where to put it, we have just one room and a kitchen. But i could say im going there to graduate and take my note that i have graduated since i don't have a diploma yet. Mom's irritable. I need rest and i can't get it anywhere. I have questions and doubts about adulting and everything. I'm so tired

[Desperate4Happiness]

are you saying you might be homeless soon? Are there shelters in your area?

[Against_the_current in reply to Desperate4Happiness]

If i piss off mom. I think there is one but idk if they accept me and if has place and it's not miserable

[Starrlight]

Is there a reason you think your dad will pack you out? I worry about not being able to pay bills and become homeless so I know it’s a scary idea, but anxiety is a liar. All we can do is try our best with what we have. I’m sorry you haven’t gotten enough rest. You’ve worked soooo hard. Can you sleep soon? When everyone sleeps?

[Against_the_current in reply to Starrlight]

Exactly then i can't sleep. I woke up st 2am and stayed up. I graduated and he has to save for my sisters. He told me i have to plan to leave

[Starrlight in reply to Against_the_current]

That sounds like a lot of pressure on you. Maybe he would give you time you need to prepare for it.

[Against_the_current in reply to Starrlight]

It's a lot. I don't know what neither of them plans but i know they have planned different stuff (separately ofc)

[Starrlight in reply to Against_the_current]

Maybe have a chat after you decide what would work and see if they can make an agreement with you.

[Against_the_current in reply to Starrlight]

I will

[SoporRose]

AtC,

Might your dad be willing to pay for a small storage unit for your belongings for a few months while you get yourself sorted out?

[Against_the_current in reply to SoporRose]

He isn't. And i don't want to cause him expenses. He said he will take my stuff to grandparents' house in the countryside or to mom....who would go crazy when she sees it. If only i had a room. Also i don't want him roaming through my stuff. And i don't want to pack and unpack

[SoporRose in reply to Against_the_current]

That actually sounds like a reasonable way to make sure your things are safely stowed.

[Against_the_current in reply to SoporRose]

We do this since years