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I'm home alone and sick but mom will arrive tomorrow and i wonder whether to tell her

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Hey, I'm sick. I have a fever. Mom's coming home tomorrow from a vacation and i wonder whether to tell her to stay at grandma's to not get sick (aka to not annoy me when im sick). The problem is mom would get upset that im sick "now i have to take care of you and im tired" and "im glad i didn't take you on the excursion/ you always get sick when we have to travel". Idk what to do. I don't want to tell her I'm sick but i would have to live one week with her being annoying plus making me register at the labour market and clean dad's appartment while I'm sick

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gajh

Please tell your Mom that you are sick. Let her decide what she wants to do after you tell her. Just focus on getting yourself well.

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Against_the_current in reply togajh

Thank you. I messaged her i have a cold

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Good for you. Get plenty of rest.

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Thank you 🤗

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MaggieSylvie

Stay at home and put earplugs in.

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Against_the_current in reply toMaggieSylvie

She's already home. There was a huge fight the morning. It's hard

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So sorry. This is a hell of a situation. Take care of yourself.

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Thank you. I'm getting worse. I'm really nauseous and mom would kill me if she finds out or sees me vomit. They keep on screaming every morning with sis

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